we have recently decided to have a baby and now he thinks i am cheating cuz i have guy friends what do i do? i love him and do not wish to lose him
2006-12-19 02:57:51 · 11 answers · asked by blueball 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why bother? If he doesn't trust you, dump his lame, insecure *** and move on with your life.
2006-12-19 03:00:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're best thing to do is sit him down and pour your heart out telling him how you feel and that you would never cheat on him or want to leave him. But sorry to say if that doesn't work then he may not be the guy for you. The key to a good relationship is TRUST!
2006-12-19 03:04:25 · answer #2 · answered by Kristin R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there any basis for him feeling that way? Talk to him about his insecurities and reassure him you are not cheating. Then after that tell him you should have earned his trust by now, you love him and only him and have no intentions of being with someone else. Its good that he tells you about his feelings, but you gotta tell him about yours! Deciding to have a child with someone is quite the commitment and just that should be enough to prove how much you love him. Just tell him to relax!!!
2006-12-19 03:07:06 · answer #3 · answered by nitespector 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guys point the finger 1st when THEY are the culprit. they do this to deflect attention onto you so you wont pay attention to the signs that are probably already there that show he is cheating. let him talk to all these guys and ask questions. explain to your friends that you are just trying to clear the air and to let your bf know what the friendship is like. DO NOT bring a baby into this.
2006-12-19 03:02:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the time the accuser is the guilty party. I'd be asking him what he's been doing and think long and hard before getting pregnant. My boyfriend of a year wanted a kid now I'm pregnant and he's gone. Haven't seen him in months. Good luck hon. But seriously it's from my own experience
2006-12-19 03:02:05 · answer #5 · answered by SweetClue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be careful with this one... Usually when a guy starts accusing a girl of cheating, he is doing something himself. I'd hold off on the baby thing till you two have this issue worked out.
2006-12-19 03:08:18 · answer #6 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well talk to him tell him what you are feeling. and not just cuz you have guys friends that menas that you are cheating well hope you work everything out.
2006-12-19 03:02:48 · answer #7 · answered by Dulce O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl just kick him to the curb if he dont have the trust for you
2006-12-19 03:01:00 · answer #8 · answered by princessfromthe804 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants to make sure its his kid, id do the same i dont want to pay for someonelses mistake, kids cost a lot of money and time. so hes just wants to make sure
2006-12-19 03:02:29 · answer #9 · answered by luckydo6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do i think i will be seeing you on a up coming episode of Maury
2006-12-19 03:01:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋