I am currently at his house staying there I don't live near here its my senior year I need to graduate. my moms in tear youg brothers crying moms sick to stomach, but he wants me to choose my mom and friends or him
2006-12-19 02:57:38 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it depends: are you ready? is he worth it? do you really love him? will he still let you go to school to graduate? whats going to happen after you get married? you need to sit down and think things out.
2006-12-19 03:02:18 · answer #1 · answered by Kaity-lyn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should probably NOT be staying at a guys house that you've only known for 2 weeks, first off. (yes, I will sound a little mommy'ish). What does he really know about you, in 2 weeks, to be able to tell if he wants to marry you, and the same with you. You dont knwo this guy!!!! And the fact that you are even asking this on Yahoo, shows everyone (even yourself ) that you dont love this guy, you have questions about every aspect about this relationship, I am sure. And no matter what, your family is more important than some guy you've known for 2 weeks. Stay by your mom's side and take care of things at home. At least help out.......this guy is no good if he wants you to choose between him and your family.......he should be embracing you and (you means you and your family, b/c your family is a big part of your life), not tearing things apart for you......... Move out!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-19 03:04:34 · answer #2 · answered by it'sjustme79 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the rush? IF YOU HAVE TO ASK... there is no way this can be good! You don't even know him after two weeks. Get out honey, ANYONE who wants to keep you from your family can't have your best interests at heart. You're 19 but not stupid. You are staying there to graduate, not get married. It is hard, but I worked and put myself through my senior year in an apartment with room mates. This is way too fast. Besides do you really think people who have known and loved you all your life would lead you astray? As opposed to some control freak who has known you 2 weeks?
GET OUT!! Find some other way to stay in the school district. DON'T GET MARRIED!
2006-12-19 03:15:20 · answer #3 · answered by blaze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 19, you know that very well, he's 23 both of you are still in this "who am I stage" in life. I believe that both of you should date for a few months maybe a year before talking about marriage. Take things slow. Your family might have some problems but going to marry a guy after two weeks, much haste. Go home, get school over with, have yourself covered, job, money, place of you own. Woman nowadays should think idepentdently first.
2006-12-19 03:02:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you were raised by the Texas chainsaw family you never choose a man over your family. He should want to get married and be apart of your family. There should be no doubt in your mind when you and someone you have been serious about talk about marriage. You need to be in a stable place in your life before you get married. You still need to graduate school. concentrate on that and if he is willing to wait then you will know he really loves you. Don't rush anything you are still so young and have a long life ahead of you. If he gets upset and breaks up with you then let him go, that will just prove he is not that serious about you because someone who really loves you will wait for you.
2006-12-19 03:02:56 · answer #5 · answered by amovalle28 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your way too young! Don't quit school especially only after 2 weeks of knowing someone. You have no ideal if he could be an axe murderer yet! Go back home and graduate. If you quit school now its going to make getting a job in the real world extremely difficult later on. If he loves you enough to marry you he will wait for you to finish. He sounds like he would be too controlling in a relationship anyways.
2006-12-19 03:01:23 · answer #6 · answered by Melissa C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
deffinitly choose ur family and friends. i mean guys come and go but ur family and friends are always there for you. this guy is a jerk and he shouldnt make u choose between him and ur fam like that. finish ur senior year go to college make a great future for yourself. dont throw it all away for a guy . he is not forever. he will leave you when he gets bored they all do. there are many other guys out there that will be much nicer than this one and much better. do not get married you dont really know if it is a sure thing b.c. u dont kno him very well its only been two weeks and i tell u he does not sound nice if he makes u choose like that. you are too young to waste your life away like that this is just the beginning
2006-12-19 03:08:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!! He doesn't love you when he is talking that you have to choose! Cause they are a people that you love. And you don't know him very well!! are you sure that he is the man that you would like to married? Maybe you feel like that for right now. You have to know him better!!! and you will see after some time how things going. Where are you hurrying?? All life is in front of you
2006-12-19 03:07:34 · answer #8 · answered by Ana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is telling you that then you need to get away from him like big time. B/c you should never let a guy tell you options on either you do this or this, and then he makes you choose. You shouldnt have to choose. Your family and friends mean more to you than a bf......b/c you can always find another bf like aka.....there are more fish out there in the sea. basically is what i am trying to say.
Friends and family come first
Then bf's and all.
2006-12-19 03:01:28 · answer #9 · answered by fryeindustries2002 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. This is something you will regret for the rest of your life, if someone really loved you they will never make you choose over your own mother or family. There's no reason to rush into anything, take things slow and the most important thing to do is finish school, you have one more year left, don't get distracted by someone who doesn't care about your future.
2006-12-19 03:00:49 · answer #10 · answered by sarabmw 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
2 weeks is not NEARLY enough time to make a step that big. Get your education so you will have something to fall back on. If a guy cares enough for you, they will still want to be with you. I think you feel inside what is the right thing to do. Don't make a mistake of this magnitude this early in your life.
2006-12-19 03:06:32 · answer #11 · answered by Rod Rod Go 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋