I have recently changed my job of 4 years and this was very community based and now I am in one which is more Business based and I'm not sure if it is me. I have also split up with my FWB best friend ever she worked at my old place and we argued, I miss her loads but she won't talk to me. I don't know who I am anymore, where I'm going, who with, what I believe in. Its doing my head in!!
2006-12-19 02:49:26 · 17 answers · asked by dsf d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As long as you changed your job, why not consider it a new opportunity with life and open up new venues,meet new people and do new things. Leave the old behind if it is so distressing. There are lots of other FWB's around and loads of places to meet more...go for it and don't look back!!!!
2006-12-19 02:59:19 · answer #1 · answered by J.M.C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sit back, take a deep breath, and think about your situation.
Weigh all aspects of the positive decisions you have made. You have a new job and a new opportunity to move forward .Sometimes
it is very difficult to adjust to new friends and a different work place. Give the change some time,you might find that this move was really the best thing that have done for yourself. Good Luck.
and "GOD BLESS!
2006-12-19 03:08:09 · answer #2 · answered by bernice l 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change is hard. It's one of the most difficult things to deal with in life. Pray, hun. I don't mean to shove religion in your face because I know how people can be on here with all of that, but seriously... God will help you. You will never be given an obstacle that you cannot handle. Take some time for yourself. Talk to your parents and other close friends and family members about what's going on in your life. Remember that their are people who love you and would do anything for you. Surround yourself with people, especially through the holidays. Remind yourself why you decided to switch jobs in the first place. Everything will be fine and fate controls everything... God controls everything. :) I PROMISE that everything happens for a reason and the best is yet to come. Praying for you.
2006-12-19 02:56:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to take a day to your self and weigh out the good and the bad. You need to take a step back from your life and view it from the outside looking in because when you are all in it you cant view the obvious. If you really miss you 'FWB' best friend then you need to try to confront her face to face with your feelings if you are able to, of not, continue to call her untill she gets the picture that you will not stop calling until you speak to her. You need to take some time off to analyze your life, the past, present, and future.
2006-12-19 02:53:29 · answer #4 · answered by superbad~honeydip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First take a deep breath, then get in your car and go to teh mall entrace, then there you will see a big map with an arrow pointing to a spot and it says" YOU ARE HERE" now jump up and down and be glad you foud yourself and then go back to reality and don't drop your head because that's for lossers. Hold your head up and high when you walk and if it's not teh job you like, stay with it till you find one better and one you like. As for the girl move on and go find another one.
2006-12-19 02:56:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
u just went thru a breakup and now u feel like your foundation is unstable. thats normal. u didnt lose yourself, u lost a lover.
if your identity was based on your partner and now u believe youre half a person, now is the time to take the time to be with yourself and get to know yourself and be your own best friend.
2006-12-19 02:54:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must have some photos of your old times, rite ?? Nah, experience some adventurous flash back moments, and do remember what you used to strive for, want to be, go for, etc...
You'll soak yourself in your own old sweet memories, which finally can get you through the current problem, folk, okay ??
2006-12-19 02:57:41 · answer #7 · answered by Evo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your have begun a new journey in your life and the path is unclear for the moment.
The empty void in your life will pass.
Beleive in yourself.
Dont Give Up.
You are not alone unless you choose to be.
2006-12-19 03:06:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah life can through you through those loops!
here is a web site that helped me
Coping.org
go to tools for personal growth!
text based site that will help you soul search for yourself!
2006-12-19 02:55:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stay strong... stick with your job and if all else fails look for another one. Try to send her things to tell her you still care and she means something to you. She will understand and forgive you. Just be strong.
2006-12-19 02:53:40 · answer #10 · answered by Someonetolove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋