I have been single for more than 5 months and i don't feel like going back to the dating game, i get asked out A LOT! Some of my friends blame me and think there's something wrong with me because i don't want to date someone right now i like being single is there something wrong with that? I dumped my ex-boyfriend because i felt kinda trapped, i guess am not the dating material, now is that so wrong?
2006-12-19 02:43:05 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think its great that u could stand alone!...i mean a lot of women there go crazy when they dont have boyfriends and they only end up getting hurt because they choose poorly..they enter in a relationhips so that they wont feel alone and left out...its wonderful that u could stand alone..time will come when u have to be the other part of the relationship and ull appreaciate the stuff that u have 2 share with this other person better
2006-12-19 02:50:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with not wanting to date, People go through stages. Only you really know how you feel, dont let people pressure you into something you are not ready for. You will know when the time is right or the person is right. It sounds like your friends want to see you happy and are worried.
2006-12-19 02:49:50 · answer #2 · answered by loveamouse7767 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not wrong and I think that you already know this and you are wanting some reassurance from people. And that is ok too. No one has a right to tell you how you should live. You will date in your own time when you are ready and even if you never date again, thats cool too. Just be happy with life.
2006-12-19 02:48:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can relate to you. I am probably a lot older than you are and I enjoy my single life. I am a loner so that helps a lot. I do things by myself if friends are not available. I even go out to dinner alone and don't mind it one bit. You can come and go as you please and have no one to answer to or give you a hard time about what you are doing. If you happen to meet someone you want to date, then do it. You are the only person who can decide what is best for you.
2006-12-19 02:47:43 · answer #4 · answered by Me, Myself & I 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong... But I don't have any advice for you. See I'm the total opposite... It's like I can't get enough of guys, and I always have to have a boyfriend. I can't spend a month withouot dating someone.. Maybe something is wrong with ME...lol
2006-12-19 02:48:59 · answer #5 · answered by Foxxy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I do not think it is wrong at all. When you have someone you always seem to feel tied down or feel like you have to spend a lot of time with them. Dont worry about it just hang out with friends and be you while you still can
2006-12-19 02:47:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it isn't wrong, if you want to be single then that's your choice not someone else's. If your happy single then stay that way. After all you can't make everyone, even friends, happy, and sometimes your the only who is looking out for you.
2006-12-19 02:49:18 · answer #7 · answered by Spazz201 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well then lucky you for being asked out a lot! there is nothing wrong with being single. it means you're confident living independently. but if in any case you decide that you do want a boyfriend again, your confidence would draw in more and possible the man you were destined to be with forever!
2006-12-19 02:47:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no thats awesome actually your independent and you dont need a guy to knoe that your love and needed...go0d for u gurl cuz not a lot of gurls out there are not like this...there is nothing wrong with you...your the type that just doesnt feel like wasting your time with just anyone im pretty sure when u see a guy worth your time...then you'll think about it but hey you only have one life to live and your doin it...and it seems like ur enjoying it go0d job
2006-12-19 03:20:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, there is nothing wrong with it.
I'd rather be single and go out with my male and female friends, and have good times rather then be stuck in a bad relationship.
Use this time to work on yourself, alone time is the best.
You really get to know yourself.
2006-12-19 02:49:48 · answer #10 · answered by ♥♥ Nikki ♥♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋