I like a guy and I know he lieks me. But whenever he comes to say Hi I begin to shake and turn red in the face. Once, I had a confidence with guys, sometimes I made the first step. And now, I'm different. Sometimes, I think I am going to faint. You know, I make a public speeches, I sing solos, I read poetry in front of people, but I just can't take heart to talk to him. I'm afraid I'm gonna lose him.
2006-12-19 02:40:23 · 6 answers · asked by Orchid 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't be afraid. collect yourself and go after what/who you want.
Mom of B & D
2006-12-19 02:43:56 · answer #1 · answered by Mom of B & D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would pretend whatever you are saying to him is like giving a speech. If you are ok with public speaking then it is just a confidence thing. Once you tell yourself he isn't going to laugh in your face or say anything mean then you will be fine. Try and speak to him in a place where there are other people you know so you won't feel as emotionally exposed.
You might want to ask yourself what made you lose your confidence if you were once ok with talking to guys and deal with whatever issues it might be.
2006-12-19 10:44:34 · answer #2 · answered by Bagpuss 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All those things that you say that you have done in public can't be compared to what you are feeling for him. The reason that you can't talk to him is because you like him a lot and you have something similar to stage fright. Just get in a public place with him and calm down and maybe have a god friend walk over and talk to him for you... He might be feeling the same way that you are that's why he hasn't talked to you yet.
2006-12-19 10:46:27 · answer #3 · answered by Foxxy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For goodness sakes, relax. I t ain't that big of a deal....really
2006-12-19 10:49:09 · answer #4 · answered by dj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't lose him if you won't get him first silly!
2006-12-19 10:42:09 · answer #5 · answered by tellme.lies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u cant talk to him get rid of him
2006-12-19 10:43:44 · answer #6 · answered by *Living a {{ღяøM@N!Cღ}} Tragity* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋