I just got out of a really bad relationship and i really wanna get over that person. I really do still have feelings for him, but i just think it will never work out between us so i need to know how i can get over him? what are some things i can do?
2006-12-19 02:39:16 · 18 answers · asked by Mizzez Polo Queen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
m going through the EXACT same thing !! Well i just take it day by day dont force urself 2 date anyone right now b/c all it will do is remind u of how different he is from them. Just be alone 4 a while rediscover urself realize that u are an individual and dont need any1 2 complete you, he was just an enhacement, you are still the base structure and you can and will survive this!!!!! Start hanging around friends and once u do start dating again, go on double dates so you can all hang out as a group. I know it hurts but u will get through this, it takes time and believe me ur gonna cry and feel like all hope is gone but 1 day ur gonna wake up and realize that this is one of many heartbreaks 2 come so you might as well move on learn from it and b ready 4 da next 1. and more often than not , when your finally over him he will realize what he lost and then the ball is in ur court. love is just a funny thing lol so ill b praying 4 u stay strong and try to just relax a little everything will wrk out
2006-12-22 11:29:58 · answer #1 · answered by I know these things 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do, don't get into another relationship right away. You need time to heal and the person you run to for 'rebound' will see right through it and depending on the person might just let it go to take advantange of you. Something that might help is writing down all the things you have gained from the past relationship and all the things you've gained in breaking it off. Being in love with someone isn't enough to be happy in a relationship. From the way it sounds you are better off without him. Just bond with your friends that is always the best medicine for a broken heart.
2006-12-19 02:47:42 · answer #2 · answered by nitespector 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to keep yourself busy so you don't think about the person so much. Join an exercise group or take up a new activity you're interested in. Also, hang out with friends you can have a good time with. Think about all the things about the guy that you dislike and it will make you feel better. You'll soon realize that you're better off without the guy.Use this time to evaluate what you really want in your life.
2006-12-19 02:47:25 · answer #3 · answered by jadedjem28 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it may sound like a bit of a cliché but the old adage of keeping yourself constantly occupied is perhaps the best piece of advice anyone can offer. start by accepting every social invite that comes your way – go out to a party and have lots of fun. fill your calendar with stuff to do, even if it’s something as mundane as cleaning out your wardrobe. if you start acting like you’re over it, sooner or later, you will be.
breaking-up is hard to do, especially if you’re still in love with the other person and feel as if you can’t get over it. you can, and you will. there isn’t really anything that anyone else can do to make you understand this, you will only do it when you’re ready to admit the relationship is truly over and move on. there is more than one person out there for you, and the day will come when you find true love again and perhaps this time, it will be for real. but first, you have to take that chance…
2006-12-19 02:48:56 · answer #4 · answered by emma 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I actually went through the same thing... i ended up gangbanging an 18 year old girl on my first night single, then the next day had a 3 way with 2 21 year olds, and then found the love of my life after hanging out with a few good friends of mine
2006-12-19 02:42:55 · answer #5 · answered by Jesus Built My Hotrod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there and done that myself. Just stay busy and time heals all wounds as the old saying goes. Go out with friends, go shopping, find a hobby, do some volunteer work, read. You will eventually get over him and sooner or later, you'll meet someone great. Good luck.
2006-12-19 02:45:13 · answer #6 · answered by Me, Myself & I 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you continue to have emotions on your ex? If you dont have emotions, dont fear/believe responsible an excessive amount of! He's your ex boyfriend, you are certain to regularly believe a few matters he does are candy. Ive gotta say even though....... If your boyfriend unearths out I do not believe he's going to be joyful! Maybe it could be nice when you advised him your self, I believe he'd fully grasp extra when you heard it from you and he could also be in a position to support if youre harassed approximately all of it! :) I desire it seems k!
2016-09-03 13:19:09 · answer #7 · answered by kaufmann 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well here is my advice and I hope if you take it it works for you as well as it did for me. Take some time and date a few people but spend a lot of time on your hobbies and friends. Spend time with people who make you feel like the wonderful person that you are. Don't focus on the failed relationship or the pain just focus on making a good life for yourself:) You will be happy.
2006-12-19 02:51:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going through the same exact thing right now and I advise for you to just keep yourself busy. Do activities to get your mind off him, and when you are sitting around thinking about him, get up and do something, call a friend. Just do whatever you can to get your mind off him when you are thinking about him, because if not it will torture you for a while. Trust me sweetie, I would know. Itz hell and also very difficult, but it works. Good Luck.
2006-12-19 02:44:15 · answer #9 · answered by hated.bymany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for the time being, it'll seem impossible to get over him cos the feelings are still deep inside you.
tell yourself to live each day as it is, assuming you're a dead person and try to leave all thoughts to the back of your mind, ("problems will settle on their own") one day you'll be amazed by how time can heal your wound. there's someone out there waiting for you.
afterall, be optimistic about it, it's a good experience that makes you stronger.
2006-12-19 02:46:07 · answer #10 · answered by rachel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋