But noone wants to help,and I have been to the hospital since then almost having a nervous breakdown sunday. He is tryin everything to keep me and my feelings have changed and i want out.I know alot of you are gonna say Pack your stuff and get out,well its not that easy when dealing with a person with this diability. I care for this person but Im not in love with him anymore and im tired of pretending,I need to go on with my life and make myself happy. Does anyone know where i can take him for help ,We live close to Louisville,ky
2006-12-19 02:31:54 · 8 answers · asked by melissas69er 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you're not the cause for his disability so let him find the help he needs on his own. he's only leaning on your kindness and trying to take advantage of you.
Mom of B & D
2006-12-19 02:35:38 · answer #1 · answered by Mom of B & D 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are absolutely right about getting out. Just DO it!! If you stay with him it will keep you back. Trust me on this, I know. You can refer him to a local facility hospital drug counseling place. You should be able to find one in your local phone book. Or call any hospital and they will refer you to a place where he can seek help but if he doesn't want to seek help - you can not make him help himself. These things in life are so iffy but all I know is that you have your own life that you need to take care of. I wish you the best but always remember to take care of #1 which is YOU!
2006-12-19 10:39:33 · answer #2 · answered by Maggie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are some good hospitals in Louisville. Try Our Lady of Peace there or Western State Hospital in Hopkinsville.
2006-12-19 10:36:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get out, but remember you once loved him so you owe him to at least help him to get to a-place where they can help him. Here is the following places i founded for you, Also if he has any family contact them asap and tell them everything including how you feel, i hope this helps you!
http://psy.psychiatryonline.org/help/
American Psychiatric Association
2006-12-19 10:56:13 · answer #4 · answered by mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just tell him to get away from you and go get help and if that don't work call the police
2006-12-19 10:34:27 · answer #5 · answered by Chevy Girl 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
it is one thing to help; its another thing to become an enabler
can the hospital provide someone to represent his best interest? and what about his relatives?
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2006-12-19 10:36:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him you think someone is watching you
2006-12-19 10:34:42 · answer #7 · answered by cry baby gator 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
act like your gonna kill him, paranoid ppl will go away if they think your gonna kill them.....
2006-12-19 10:35:22 · answer #8 · answered by bossman 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋