If you don't like it then you should dump him. And by the way, he's most likely not going to stop.
Rev Jank
2006-12-19 02:19:29
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answered by Reverend Jank 3
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Well, if he is doing those things, you aren't in a monogamous relationship. If you are okay with that, then have fun and have crazy 3, 4, or 5-somes while you're at it. However, if you aren't okay with that then dump him because you're only going to end up hurting yourself. Ultimately, you will be making yourself less desireable to other guys in the future when you have emotional baggage from being in this type of relationship. This could cause you to be super jealous, and no guy likes it when his girlfriend is always asking where he is and going through his cell phone and stuff. Find a guy who you can have a healthy relationship with and who you won't be worrying about all the time. Good luck!
2006-12-19 02:26:13
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answered by Heather-Nicolle 3
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Maybe u should consider ask him to stop. Watching porn or masturbate is mostly natural for most ppl but got addicted to sex chat lines and continuously texting other woman is not ok at all. Still, give him a chance, ask him to stop, dun mind asking, most guys will accept the question calmly, dun be shy at all. If he isn't going to, dump that pervert. He's not worth it.
2006-12-19 02:23:18
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answered by Nerolynx 2
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Just make sure he pays for the expensive chat calls himself.
No reason to dump him for it I think, whats the harm in it really?
Yeah, most probably he is a perv who is never going to stop, unless he becomes really unhealthy or something.
Just like most men. And 1/3 of the women
2006-12-19 02:22:16
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answered by kurticus1024 7
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Seriously, this is one of those questions that people ask as if a)they don't already know the answer and b) if everyone on here said that he should be dumped it wouldn't make any difference at all because if the chick is willing to put up with what this guy is doing, some anonymous strangers won't convince her to do otherwise and she knows it.
2006-12-19 02:24:20
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answered by Chris D 4
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You can try to teach him a lesson by telling him
"Now we have an open relationship. You are free to Cyber, Text, and do Phone Sex as you like, and I am free to do as I like, and don't ask me about it, and I don't want to hear what you are doing with your girls."
If he gets the message and stops then fine.
If he agrees to be open, then leave it open and start finding someone who agrees to commit.
Why go through all the drama of breaking up?
Just leave him hanging in an open relationship you are not participating in.
He earned it.
2006-12-19 02:38:35
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answered by TransformYour.World 2
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First you should talk to him and let him know that you don't like it. If he keeps it going then DUMP HIM AND MOVE ON. You can only take so much of it . If you are not happy either then you need to dump him.
2006-12-19 02:23:05
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answered by trueangel121301 2
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absolutely!!!
you must dump him.
ringing sex chat lines and texting other women even if he is commited to you, simply means, he's not that sincere to you..
So, why still waste your time?
break up with him.. It'll be his loss.
2006-12-19 02:22:48
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answered by jann kyle_upvcc 1
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Is he doing this behind your back? Then maybe he has issues.
But, before you dump him ask him if you could listen in. Maybe this is something you could get into together?
It's a little naughty and kinky, but it also might be fun.
2006-12-19 02:24:11
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answered by Anonymous
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If he knows that you know he does this and does not care then he should be dumped. I most I can say is talk to him about it and see how he reacts but for the most part those kind of habits are hard to break.
2006-12-19 02:21:55
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answered by K-Marie 2
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It's normal behaviour and it means he has needs that you're not meeting. Smile and encourage him to share the sex chat lines with you. Can you persuade him to ring you instead of them occasionally?
Jennie
2006-12-19 02:24:38
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answered by Anonymous
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