Talk about other moms and make comments?Other moms at my sons school have a problem with how i dress?and have the nerve to say nasty remarks about it too there children?This has gotten down to my son who is know embarrassed to be seen with me at school!I am really pissed off!!I am not and old mom at 35 and i like to dress fashionably and have a good body i like to show off not too overly for most part.My two daughters think its cool and hubby loves it .I dont wear anything too over the top for the most part mabe the milf t-shirt on tank once in a while?
2006-12-19 02:09:09 · 3 answers · asked by Kelly V 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
I am a good mom and take care of my three kids.I go to church and help out with the community activities just like they do so what gives them the right too bad mouth me?I work hard to keep my body in shape getting up earlier than my kids to go run three miles and then do crunches.So i think if i want to wear clothing that shows off my body a little i deserve too.Its not like i dress like a hooker!
2006-12-19 02:10:00 · update #1
Who are you trying to convince?
2006-12-19 04:20:32 · answer #1 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It hurts when people badmouth you on things they have no idea about and i'm sorry they are doing this, women can be bitches....(i am a woman lol before i get attacked for that comment) but it's true.
Recently my child had an accident where she bit into glass, she's 2 years old. I acted very quickly and very well, i was hugged by doctors for my quick response. When i told some people about what happened, that it was an accident but she is okay now besides some burst vessels that will repair themselves...i was called unfit, stupid, neglegant, and my 2 year old was actually called retarded by other mothers. I was so hurt, but people are so so quick to stan dup and judge,t hey think they know it all and have it all, and they love nothing more than to demean others outside of their little clique to make themselves feel better. The next time they make a snide comment about you blow them a kiss. lol. Kindnesscan be your worst weapon against these kinds of people. Or i would pluck up the courage to just walk over to one of them and ask her what her problem is, if she gets cocky ask her how old she is because she certainly doesn't look like she's in highschool no more.
Or you can just toatly ignore them.
The women who said those things about me and my daughter are very jealous women. They have kids born in the same month as mine but they are very unhappy people.
You have a body you like to show off, and i don't blame you. If you dress stylishly more power to ya. I think they are just very jealous that they can't get away with wearing what you do.
My SIL hates me, because even after 2 kids, and well, one on the way, i'm remain a size 5 with no stretch marks...i love wearing a bikini and she can't wear one....she despises me because of it....these women sound the same way.
I say flaunt your stuff, smile big, hold your head high and flip the bird the next time you see one of them...you ain't got nothing to lose! Give them something to talk about and explain to your son...these women are low lifed who love nothing more than cause trouble that he hsouldn't be ashamed of his mama, that one day us moms will be old and wearing support hose and gerdals lol so we need to make the most of what we have now lol before we're old and febal.....i guess make him laugh and see the funny side of all this.
Good luck. :)
2006-12-19 04:43:12 · answer #2 · answered by Kat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a woman thing. I see how my wife and her friends are. I think it's could also be a jealously thing. Either way, it doesn't bode well for you.
2006-12-20 08:07:30 · answer #3 · answered by [><] Rebel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋