I have 2 children with him and now so does she... I am going crazy here!!!
2006-12-19 01:31:15 · 13 answers · asked by Great Nurse 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I really dont care about what my sister or x do, I am concerned for my children... They are my priority and my sister does not like the 2 of them to be around except to baby sit her kids and to clean her house.
2006-12-19 02:18:24 · update #1
I never expected it to happen since he did not like her while we were married. They got married at my parents house and I had no clue about it. I was never told that she was even seeing anyone. I was told 5 minutes before the wedding took place at my parents house.
2006-12-19 02:20:00 · update #2
Ever heard of the expression...little sisters like to copy and do what their big sister do! It sounds like your sister only cares about your herself and never considered your feelings. Your X should have been off limits to anyone in your family, especially your sister! She is rude and unconsiderate!!!! How does your family feel about this situation? I would definitely not be in the same facility as my sister and X...this would include family functions, X-mas, Weddings and ect. Just let your family know how you feel about this and I'm sure they would understand!!! For instance, go to your family's house later or the next day once your sister and the x visited!!! It would do you some good not to see them together...and if the family starts bickering to you about the situation...tell them it's all the sister's fault!!! Good luck!!!
2006-12-19 01:53:27 · answer #1 · answered by September Sweetie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that definatly puts a cramp in family holidays and outings!! i'm sorry your going through this, i would definaly have a problem with that if i were in your shoes. its a sad thing that he thought he needed to keep it in the family. sounds like he has some issues he should have figured out before this happened. and i'm surprised your sister went along with it, but all you can do is make the best of a bad thing. do you still talk to them, if so then tell them how hard this is for you to deal with because she is your sister. you feel angry or hurt maybe betrayed in a way and they need to acknowledge this. you can't change the situation but you can learn to deal with it. once they know how you feel then it will be easier for all to get past it. you and your sister should talk and get things out in the open and at least clear the air with eachother. if this can't be done then distance is best. also consider talking to a counselor, having someone to listen and not judge is a good way to help pave the path to feeling better. GOOD LUCK!!
2006-12-19 01:49:43 · answer #2 · answered by onyx maiden 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would be the ultimate in awkard family reunions. I'm not sure how I would respond. I wouldn't really want to be around them too uncomfortable not because of lingering feelings but just having to spend time with them( ex) at all.
2006-12-19 01:42:29 · answer #3 · answered by seretazandrae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I was going to tell you to kick her ***, But their are children involved. Well girl friend I guess that's why some women never let their husband meet their family. But in your case I guess it's to late for that. I guess this guy likes to keep it in the family.
2006-12-19 01:53:35 · answer #4 · answered by omegarussell42 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my God this is a Jerry springer moment. I would feel more hurt for my sister for number one doing something that dirty and number 2 because she wanted something that i no longer wanted.
2006-12-19 01:35:41 · answer #5 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hold on let me get this straight..both of ur kids are half brother/sister and cousins..yallz family tree is guna be so confusing....this is some good stuff lol
2006-12-19 01:35:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Umm...WOW...that's kinda creepy lol Well, you could stress OR you could sit back and laugh at how idiotic she's being!!
2006-12-19 01:35:05 · answer #7 · answered by Finally FREE!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,,,, hmmm,,, sounds to me like little sis might have "Known" your husband before you got divorced to me....
good luck.....
2006-12-19 01:35:01 · answer #8 · answered by eejonesaux 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's your *X* so why are you worried about what he and your sister are doing. Get your own life, for pete's sake.
2006-12-19 01:43:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
that is something crazy why would your sis do that???? well tell her that you never expected something like that 2happen
2006-12-19 02:14:43 · answer #10 · answered by huitron_tiffany 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋