My sister has never had a bf. she is almost 13. i never hear her talk about guys. i am really concerned about her. i don't know what to do. HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-19 01:28:46 · 20 answers · asked by smith_d8525 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
she is only 13... a freshman in high school right? i would not worry about it... i never really talked to my older sister about guys i liked or what not. i never really talked about it till i was in 10th grade and only to my friends... not my sister... give her some more time...
2006-12-19 01:32:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I don't think it's your place to tell your Mom. If she were gay, then when she is ready, she should be the one to talk to her Mom. Secondly, she's only 13, and not all girls are boy crazy at that age. Give it time. You should build a better friendship with your sister, and she might open up a little more.
2006-12-19 12:36:51 · answer #2 · answered by e l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dud she is 13. What's wrong with you. Maybe she like school more then then being a 13 teen year old mother. I think you should stop trying to pimp your little sister out, worrying about her having sex. And get your life together. I have two daughter's, 7 and 5, I hope by the time their 13 years old they are thinking like your little sister, Because I don't want any **** for brains, pain in the *** boy's around my little girls when they are 13. Because my rule is that they can have their first date in college.
2006-12-19 01:44:59 · answer #3 · answered by omegarussell42 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything. First, it isn't your responsibility to worry about your sister, it is your parents. I am sure your parents are happy she isn't worrying about guys at the moment. Also, some people just don't get into the whole dating and infatuation time as fast as others. It's a good thing. At 13, no one should have had boyfriends or girlfriends as they have no idea what they are even doing at that point. Also, just because she has a lack of interest at this time does not mean that she is homosexual. A lot of kids (boys and girls) from about 6-11 area can't even think of a person of the opposite sex in an attractive way (think "boys/girls have cooties" or "eeewwww, boys/girls are icky") but that doesn't imply homosexuality. In fact, most of those people go on to get married to someone of the opposite sex and have families. Let it go, worry about things that you can control.
2006-12-19 01:33:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
1st, it is good you are concerned for your sister.
2nd, if she is gay that will be her choice to make if she can even choose not to be.
3rd, SHE'S 13!!! Maybe she just hasn't had it happen yet or has avoided it for some other reason.
Last, talk to her 1st. If you are concerned for her, spinning up the whole family or even just your mother and sister are not the way to start. If she has denied this position and you trust her normally, leave it alone at least for a while. Good luck.
2006-12-19 01:36:57 · answer #5 · answered by deeply interested 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please stop! She is 13 and never had a BF, and you are concerned she is gay? First, if she is, that's her business to discuss or to not discuss with your mother--not yours. Also, being 13, and not being boy crazy is more than totally normal. I never had my first boyfriend until I was in high school-not everyone thinks about boys night and day. I'm sure she has other priorities.
2006-12-19 01:34:03 · answer #6 · answered by melouofs 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
First of all, typically, females do not develop interest in the opposite sex as early as males. We've got testosterone pumping through our bodies causing us to go girl crazy at an early age, about 12 or so. They do not develop the same feelings until about 14.
That said, whether she is gay or not, its none of your business! You go sticking your nose in where it doesn't belong and and spouting off will only cause major problems in the family.
STAY OUT OF IT!
This is between her and them, it has nothing to do with you!
2006-12-19 01:40:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
WHAT! how silly, some girls develope slower than others, I'm sure if there is any real reason for concern, your Mum has taken this into the equation, eekk any way if she does turn out gay, thats her choice, be a decent bro and deal with it
2006-12-19 01:34:09 · answer #8 · answered by Loverboi007 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all, she is 13! if she does not have a boyfriend so what. and if she is gay, so what. it's really none of your business. be thankful that she is not thinking of boys right now. and you said she "MIGHT" be gay. why stir the pot and question others about her? just go to her. why would you ASSUME she is gay and not directly ask her. if you ask her and she says she is not gay, leave her alone. if she tells you she is gay, that would be something she would have to tell her parents when SHE is ready to.
2006-12-19 01:59:50 · answer #9 · answered by ABC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone.. First of all she's only 13 not every girl thinks that romantic relationships are the only aspect of thier lives. second even if she is a lesbian then it's her right to come out to her parents and not yours to out her. How would you feel if she told your parents why you are so popular with the boys?
2006-12-19 01:33:04 · answer #10 · answered by Lost in Merryland 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋