And would you marry her?
2006-12-19 01:15:25 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are so many differant ways that i could rant back to this question!
Lets begin with, there is nothing wrong with sex, It is not a sin, it is not wrong - It is a result of physical attraction. It can be fun it can be magical, it can be a way of making life.
Why would you not marry someone because they are attracted to you?! It doesn't make sense does it?
And if you had sex with her too, whats stopping her from thinking 'should I marry a guy who shagged me on the first date?'
And wouldn't you think she was silly for even thinking that!?
And finally, If what you are really worried about is her enjoying sex and therefore she might 'cheat' on you - remember, she is not your possession. Even marriage cannot stop her natural feelings. If she becomes attracted to someone else, it is just something you will have to deal with at the time. If you love her, you will want her to do whatever makes her happy - It would be selfish to demand that she only loves you. Humans are equipped with plenty of love to share, why stifle that? Alternatively, if you can't share but she still wants more, you'll just have to leave her. So what? The next chapter begins, roll with it... Of course, this problem might not even occur!
Enjoy life!
Xx
2006-12-19 02:13:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was good n bed then you shouldn't be asking questions, you should be asking for another date. Girls who get banged out on the first date are just use to getting banged out the regular. If you have something in common you shouldn't let a thing like going all the way on the first date stop you. She may just be the ONE.
2006-12-19 01:52:17 · answer #2 · answered by 4u2nv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if your that type of guy who "does it" on the first date, you can't really say anything about her.
If you doing it because you like each other and have been waiting months or even years to be with each other, then thats fine.
If she does this with all her first dates, she is a walking STI lol
Marry her? Well you marry someone because you have had many happy years together and never want it to end, not because they never opened there legs to you on the first night lol
Bottom line: Use a condom
2006-12-19 01:22:46 · answer #3 · answered by Michelino 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"What do you think of a girl who 'Does it' on the first date?" Normal.
Three of the 58 women I've dated didn't do it on the first date. One I dated for three years. The second I married. And the third, I'm living with.
2006-12-19 01:26:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would not necessarily judge her by the fact that she put out on the first date. After all, it takes two to tango.
If you like her and wanna get to know her better then do so.
If you have only had one date then thinking about marriage is a lil too premature at this stage. I would marry a guy who put out on a first date if I loved him and he loved me.
Ignore all those people who say she is a ****, whore etc... If you like her then go with it.
Good luck.
2006-12-19 02:25:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't date a girl unless she puts out on the first date. Ladies, why wait? It's gonna happen eventually, right? Unless you are a mormon, you know what you want the end result of dating to be.
I'm never getting married.
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2006-12-19 01:50:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A girl who does it on the first date obviously has no self respect. She is easy. I'm sure it isn't the first time she has done it. Would I marry someone like that...hell no. I want someone who is going to respect themselves. What ever happened to the idea that having sex w/ someone is special. You don't just hand it out like candy.
2006-12-19 01:28:55 · answer #7 · answered by littleredd1003 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It takes 2. I still have respect for girls I stuffed on the first date and would actually marry one of them.
2006-12-19 01:19:31 · answer #8 · answered by Skeletor 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Her moral compass is out of whack for one. The last girl I dated (background: one daughter 11-12, married three times - which I gave her the benefit of doubt on) literally asked me to hop in the sack with her.
No surprise there - I saw the handwriting on the wall. So I gave her a short summary similar to this one: I've tried a lot of different candy and when you eat a lot it tends to make you sick. I'm tired of all the candy. I want one good piece of candy the rest of my life. And she'll just have to wait until we're married.
Her reply "well don't you want to take it for a test drive before you buy it, take it home and park it in the garage." So much for equality and any sense of self-respect. It was like some cheesy line in one of the ordinary flicks that seem so commonplace coming out of Hollyweird.
She's comparing herself to a vehicle. "ooh, take me for a ride." Whatever. We don't talk anymore, but that's her choice and it's fine by me.
There's something to be said for her opposite. Where are you?
2006-12-19 01:26:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
it would have to depend on what she wanted and what I thought of her.
If we knew each other from work or something & we'd had a good working relationship then the sex would be secondary.
If i'd met her on the street & we just had a good time then I'd take it as far as we were willing to go & be happy with that.
To get to that stage you have to both be compatible in some way so *maybe* they might have a look in, certainly i'd check them out to see if they can be girlfriend/one night/good friend or wife material.
surely everybody does it...
2006-12-19 02:13:16 · answer #10 · answered by Can I Be Your Pet? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋