when we r together we r inseprable..i have to admit that..we r perfect for each other..but when we r apart i dont know whts on his mind..he gets upset abt his job...he keeps saying he needs to get out..he's tired of being in one place...he wants to go someplace else...he feels like he's being stifled...i asked him what will happen to us he says "nothing"...i'm in love with him..and i really do want to help him...it makes me feel as though he wants to get away from me too. but he says thts not true.
2006-12-19 01:13:40 · 8 answers · asked by pixie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think I have some problem similar with you as well. My boyfriend said he would apply for visa to take me to the US, but he is always delaying this, but he always seems love me so much. He spent lots of talk to me online and came here to meet me 4 times every year. I don't know what he is thinking. He seems don't worry about our future at all. Anyway, we will get married next year no matter I can go to the US or not. He iwll come here to find a job.
I think your situation is really passive. You really need to talk him through. You should make him know that his job is not everything to him because there's always you with him if he is really serious about your relationship. If he really loves you, he will be willing to talk to you about his job problem. He should want comfort from you when he accumulates pressure from his job. You sound really sweet girl! Your boyfriend should love the way that you deserve. Don't let him take your love for granted. First, try to talk him through this. If it doesn't work, talk with him about your future to be together. If everything's not moving on, you will need to move on by yourself. Hope this helps you! Best luck!
2006-12-19 01:25:45 · answer #1 · answered by Shan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like from what you posted that he is suffering more from frustration than depression. He needs to find a new job. His current job seems unfulfilling to him. Talk to him and ask him to look for another job. In the meantime, tell him that things will get better and that it's just a matter of time. Give him all the support you can and the most important thing is to listen.
2006-12-19 09:18:39 · answer #2 · answered by Andrea D. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Evryone goes through a stage like this, its nothing to worry about, hes just going through a bad patch, just stay by him and encourage him more, and make sure you tell him you love him and everything will be fine!
2006-12-19 09:26:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just support him and ask him to talk about his feelings and what happens to make him depressed or upset and what you can do to get him out of it.
2006-12-19 09:18:33 · answer #4 · answered by jbk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a b/f like that and I tried to help him but things got worse and he started blamimg me and it got so bad that at times Ithought he'd hit me (he never did) but i left him a minth ago it was a hard thing to do but i couldn't take the pain. and it still hurts at times. but i think you should leave him what i went through wasn't fun.
2006-12-19 09:21:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
everybody gets depressed now & then....But if he is always like that...then tell him to change his attitute...life is the way u look at it.. u can be happy at a very glim moment of ur life & u can stay sad even if u are sucessful & top of the world..its upto u
2006-12-19 09:18:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him all the sex he can handle to get his mind off of everything else.
2006-12-19 09:22:11 · answer #7 · answered by santosruby06 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you can tell him that .
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2006-12-19 09:24:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋