im very problematic w/ the religion as if where i choose...my mother is not a catholic,she have reminded me that i must choose a partner who'll be like her religion but deep inside i don't wanna go w/ her and follow her but i still respect her side, the fact, i go w/ her their church..now, i'm thinking the future, what if i'm married w/ a man not like her religion...GOD!...it's hard to emagine if something will gonna happen after i followed her wanted..i'm accepting some1 now and i need some advise about d's problem..i don't wanna be married a man if my mother wouldn't supported me and w/out her presence...i need her..should i follow where she wanted me to be..pls dont ask me what's her religion..i'd stil respect my mother....THANK U 4 UNDERSTANDING MY UNDERTEACHING ....ENGLISH..
2006-12-19 01:01:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Do what is in your heart...Do what you really want to do...the right thing to do.
2006-12-19 01:10:07 · answer #1 · answered by wizzygirl10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That you seek your mother's blessing in marriage is pleasing to God ... the unity of the family is SOOOOO important. Investigate the Baha'i Faith. The Baha'i Faith embraces all religions as one, progressive Religion of God. You might be happy to find that you, your mother and your future husband can all find unity this way.
"The second Taraz is to consort with the followers of all religions in a spirit of friendliness and fellowship, to proclaim that which the Speaker on Sinai hath set forth and to observe fairness in all matters." -BAHA'U'LLAH, Hidden Words, p. 61
P.S. No need to worry about your English. Your meaning is clear. God be with you and your loved ones.
2006-12-19 11:19:25 · answer #2 · answered by Linell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Props to you for respecting your mother. You have to choose someone whom you can spend the rest of your life with. If you are comfortable with their spiritual beliefs and would entrust the raising of your children to them, then you will be fine. Your beliefs do not have to be the same, you just have to be comfortable with each others' beliefs. Hopefully your mother will respect your choice, but ultimately it's one you must make on your own. After your mother is gone, your spouse will still be there, so make sure you choose for you, not your mother.
2006-12-19 09:07:58 · answer #3 · answered by oj 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Bahai faith believes in All of the Religions,
Meg
http://www.bahai.us/
2006-12-19 09:05:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should do what you feel is right. In the end, I'm sure she will accept anything you do if she truly loves you.
2006-12-19 09:05:34 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone sails their own ship to wherever they want to. If you are afraid that something will happen to you because you do not do as she says, forget it, it won't. One does NOT worship God out of FEAR.
2006-12-19 09:06:10 · answer #6 · answered by Ex Head 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When it comes to marriage.....it should be whatever and whomever makes YOU happy....NOT your mother. And a loving and caring mother should know this.
2006-12-19 09:14:04 · answer #7 · answered by Blondie B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let god bring you the right person....your mother is not god and maybe she needs to be reminded of that
2006-12-19 09:05:43 · answer #8 · answered by Robert K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋