My bf stares down other chicks and makes comments all the time. Like 'd*mn'. It hurts me so bad. Makes me feel inadequate. I dont know what to do because I know most guys do this. My last relationship my bf never did that. He was so respectfull. What should I do? I know I shouldnt be comparing the two... I've already told me how I felt about that. I cant stop him, but he could atleast not do it in front of me, but he seems to have forgotten.
2006-12-19 00:55:34 · 11 answers · asked by Meow 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is nothing wrong with looking but what your BF is doing is completely disrespectful. He stares them up and down and makes snide comments. If you see a future with him let him know how you feel. I.E. When you stare at other women and make comments about how great they look it makes me feel inadequate.
If you do not see a future then find someone who is totally into you.
2006-12-19 01:00:43 · answer #1 · answered by Mike 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I have always heard there are two ways of looking at this. One, is that just because you drive a new sports car, don't mean you cant look at the newer fancier cars and appreciate their good looks.
The second, if he is serious about you, he don't need to be looking and making comments. MOST guys do look, but the comments and actions are not there. You need to have a long talk with him and tell him if it continues, he can go see if he can test drive one of those fancy models, cause the best year model he has wont be around.
If he has roaming eyes now, he will have them later.
2006-12-19 01:01:14 · answer #2 · answered by bigmikejones 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Every guy does this so don't fool yourself your ex didn't, he was probably just more subtle about it.
I would make a point of checking a cute guy in front of your bf and then if he whines about it then say that you have noticed him do it and it hurts you just as much. I wouldn't then demand that he didn't look at another woman ever as this is very "fatal attraction" but just tell him if he is gonna oggle then just make sure he is a bit more subtle about it.
I would approach it from a humorous point of view to avoid confrontation
2006-12-19 01:04:43 · answer #3 · answered by Bagpuss 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Been there, done that, sit at the front row at that concert and bought the T-shirt. My solution--lost the guy. He's just showing you his true colors, his inconsiderate, selfish, thoughtless self. It's better you find these things out sooner rather than later. Tolerating and accepting such behavior from someone who is suppose to care about you (and your feelings) will only have a negative effect on yourself. My advice is to walk away--sooner the better.
2006-12-19 01:49:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It was never a problem for my wife and I . we enjoyed all the same things all month long . She often commented that a good backrub and an organism allways made her feel better and relieved the cramps . I never hesitated to give her backrubs to make her feel better and in a way she was able to enjoy sex a bit more because there was no fear of pregnency , so in a way we always took care of each others needs
2016-05-23 07:09:56 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The next time you see a gorgeous guy do the same thing and see how he feels about it. If he doesn't react to it then maybe he only wants you for his own feeling of adequacy.
2006-12-19 01:06:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell him straight to stop it, otherwise you are not going to continue being with him as he disrespects you... and try turning the tables around and do what he is doing to you..
why dont you stare at other men and make comments, and see how he feels like it!
2006-12-19 01:14:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get you a boyfriend that respects you. Life is too short to waste time with someone like him.
2006-12-19 00:59:24 · answer #8 · answered by Jeancommunicates 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Oh, he didn't forget. He's just ignorant, and apparently doesn't CARE about your feelings. Either get used to it or find a gentleman. (yea, there's still some left.)
2006-12-19 01:00:40 · answer #9 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
just say that if he doesnt stop doing it than ya all gonna break up!beleive me itl work!
2006-12-19 01:02:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋