Why does a guy chase you for ages, then when you meet up, he doesnt chase you so you end up chasing him, but then, when you stop chasing him cause your fed up of him ignoring you, he starts chasing you again!!
we have only kissed eachother!!
ive heard that he likes the chase and that hes never had a girlfriend before. i dont know if this is true though.
he is 29 and single.
when we are together, he always wants to be around me and never leaves my side!!!!!its all about me!!!lol xxxx
he constantly complimenting me. we have so much in common.
2006-12-19 00:55:20 · 14 answers · asked by XCuteX 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thats great
you want the truth
once you know you own something you start feeling its yours and spend lesser time with them, but once you see things are slipping away you see that you cant bear it so you go constantly behind them.
2006-12-19 01:00:48 · answer #1 · answered by angel gione 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, don't chase him. By all means, meet up, with or without other people. If its with other people, say hello and smile but dont go over (if you do, keep it short), just chat to other people and be happy.
If you are alone together, How does he act? Is he interested in what you say? Does he look bored or sulky? Does he make lots of innuendos, does he keep looking out for mates? eyeing up other girls? Assess his personality. He may need you to make the first move. You can ask him seriously but it might be better to ask him hypathetically in a jokey way - something like, "Oh, Am I not good enough then?" (with a giggle or fake-stern face etc) You can usually see straight off (by their expression) how they feel about you.
2006-12-19 01:24:19 · answer #2 · answered by Honeymist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds far too familiar!
I wish i knew the answer but to be honest it's still a bit of a mystery to me too! My gut reaction is that he does like you (and why wouldn't he) but that he may be more keen on the chase then actually getting together.
In which case you need to work out what you really want from him and then go for that- whatever it may be.
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2006-12-19 01:22:57 · answer #3 · answered by girly girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is quite normal for guys - well the ones i've met anyway. I met a guy once and got on really well with him after one date he didn't want to know. I met him again six months later and the same happened again although this time i let things get a little too far. Be careful and please don't make the same mistake that i did. I ended up feeling used and hurt. If you really like this guy confront him about the situation - either he stops messing you around or you find someone who will appreiciate you! Your worth more and just remember that! xx
2006-12-19 01:02:29 · answer #4 · answered by aimee b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I agree that he likes the chase, but he seems like he doesn't know what he wants. I wouldn't chase him anymore. You need to figure out if you really want to put up with someone who keeps giving you the run around.
2006-12-19 01:01:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people just like to play games like this. He stops chasing because he thinks he has your attention. Then when you back off, he gets insecure, and starts chasing you again...........its just simple psychology, not to mention a childish game played by some people. If it continues for too long, it will begin to screw your head up......therefore, when it gets to this stage, you need to make a decision.......keep playing the game, or go and look for someone who can make his mind up what he wants.
This also applys if you are also playing this game of cat and mouse.
2006-12-19 01:06:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he wants to be with you, but you have been seein each other for how long and your not movin on in the relationship. If its true he's 29 single and never had a girlfriend i'd be suspicious and if he's lying then!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-19 01:11:30 · answer #7 · answered by yorkie71 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think that that is normal its not,the guys playing with you and your feelings,if he wants a relationship OK,Or you could blunt and go right to the point,if he wants a real relationship OK,if not clear off,if that don't sort it out it really is time to call it a day and find some stability
2006-12-19 01:29:53 · answer #8 · answered by barnowl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its like the testing game, to see how the other one feels and how far you can push someone before losing them. you know your ready to settle down when it all stops and no more testing or chasing
2006-12-19 01:02:34 · answer #9 · answered by sophie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like all he wants to do is play games and at 29 it is time for him to grow up. the part about when you are together if it is nice that all the attention is on you then cool but if its creepy that he focuses on you too much then move on
2006-12-19 01:05:30 · answer #10 · answered by miseryluvscompany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a shy person. He might be a virgin. Don't laugh at him will you or you could hurt him deeply.
Have a good Christmas and a wonderful relationship together.
2006-12-19 01:05:43 · answer #11 · answered by Curious39 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋