I don't think that means you don't love them,,,,as much as it means you don't respect them,,,,,you can do all kinds of things,,,,and still love your partner,,,,from cheating to abuse and they will all say they still love a person,,,,,OJ said he loved Nicole,,,,and people say he killed her,,,,I don't know if he did,,,,but even if he did that doesn't take away the fact that he did love her,,,,,alot of people cheat for a number of reasons,,,and sometimes it is not for love,,,,they are lacking or missing something from themselves or in their relationship,,,,and find comfort some where else,,,,,when you love and care for someone,,,,,I think that feeling is genuine,,,,and we are all capable of making mistakes,,,,,It is how we deal with those mistakes that make us the people we are,,,,if we take someone back that has cheated repeatidly,,,,do they love us,,,,,I'm sure,,,,,but is it just their fault for cheating or both people,,,,,because we chose to stay ,,,,, knowing it would happen again,,,,,and it is hard to point the finger at one person,,,when we knew it could happen again,,,,,,I think cheating is about respect, and loyality,,,, and proving a point that we think we have to prove to ourselves,,,,,,when a person loses respect for their partner,,,,that opens up a whole lot of doors for them to be hurt,,,,,and who is to blame the person cheating,,,,,,or the person that is letting the partner walk all over them,,,,
Their is a saying,,,," A person will only do to you what you let them do",,,,,,,,and that is why so many people are miserable today in their life, family, marriage, and continue to stay,,,,,,,,,,,,on their own,,,,,,so is it love ,,,,,I don't know but it is definately something HUH!!!!!!
Thanks,
DAPHNE
2006-12-19 00:39:30
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