i'm an uncontrollable flirt... but i dont let it go any further though. i know that if my boyfriend had to flirt with other girls, i'd get very jealous. but i cant help myself - i flirt with almost everyone... i think i might have a problem!!! or i'm just being a hypocrite?
2006-12-19 00:05:25 · 34 answers · asked by tasha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're being a hypocrite. Flirting is just friendly "banter" between "opposite" sexes, it doesn't mean anything other than the two people are mature enough to tease and cajol without getting in too deep. If you're getting jealous that would be an indication that you're not mature enough to handle the relationship you are in.
2006-12-19 00:59:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem to have a double standard, You can flirt, but you don't want your boyfriend to do it. This is hypocritical. Try and quit, and seek professional heplp if necessary. Flirting does no good when you are in a relationship with someone.
2006-12-19 00:27:22 · answer #2 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you would only be jealous had your boyfriend flirted with other girls, but nothing more then that, then you are not a hypocrite. But otherwise, then I have to say you are.
2006-12-19 00:16:53 · answer #3 · answered by Avner Eliyahu R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok flirting could be a problem altho u tell urself u wouldnt go any further you cant always be sure and although you no and tell your bf that how could he trust you when he knows that you honestly an truly flirt with other men??.... ur not drunk or high your you and i spose if he loves and trusts you then hill take you for hu u r.... but if you have a prob with him being the same as you ull have to sort it out.... x
2006-12-19 00:15:36 · answer #4 · answered by Abbey 2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirting is cheating depending on how far u take it. if ur insinuating something or touching then, yes u are cheating. if its just joking around then it is fine, but must be cut off when it starts to get serious. also the other person needs to know its not going anywhere...that u are with and very happy with someone else.
2006-12-19 00:08:06 · answer #5 · answered by jenivive 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You do have a problem, jealousy is evil and you need to get over it. It is normal for people to flirt, it is a way of feeling accepted and wanted. As long as you can trust your mate, the flirting should not bother you.
2006-12-19 00:14:33 · answer #6 · answered by Alexandra 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not cheating, but it can create some problems. Just make sure you aren't leading anybody on. A little flirting isn't gonna hurt anyone.
2006-12-19 00:14:43 · answer #7 · answered by ropemancometh 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think flirting is very natural! truthfully, my boyfriend told me "flist" was my middle name. I think you need to be careful who you flirst with and why you are flirting. Just remember, is it harmless? or are you are crossing the line of flirting? I guess a good rule of thumb would be to think about if you saw you boyfriend flirting like you were, would you be okay with it? or would you be upset. I say go for it.. but keep it to a minimum!
2006-12-19 00:08:34 · answer #8 · answered by gemini girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not cheating, but if your bf isn't allowed to do it, you should follow suit and not do it. There is a fine line between play flirting, and intimate flirting. Save the intimate for your bf.
2006-12-19 00:10:19 · answer #9 · answered by Floss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have filtitosis(not a real disease), the uncontrollable act of flirting
hope your boyfriend doesn't mind, or find a way to make it stop
personally, when it comes to the girl i love, i'm totally 100% devoted, i consider myself cheating if i hug another girl, even when we aren't together in any way
2006-12-19 00:09:30 · answer #10 · answered by Curt C. 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋