It's been 6 months my girlfriend told me that she was lesbian and didn't want to be with me anymore even though she still loved me. I was desperately in love with her and then I accepted to do something that maybe no other guy would ever do for a girl: I subjected myself to a surgery in Mexico to change my sex and turn myself into a girl so she woud have no reason to leave me. Last month the whole process was completely done. Last week she just told me that she doens't want to stay with me even after all I've done for her. Now I just don't know what to do. I like girls and I don't know if I will ever find another girl who accepts me the way that I look now. The doctor told me the surgery is unreversable. What should I do?
2006-12-18 23:29:34 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are serious you could make a lot of money selling this story to a tabloid.
2006-12-18 23:31:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
What a load of old rubbish. I mean come on if your gonna post a silly question make it sound at least plausable. There is no way you could change your sex like you say, theres months of intense counciling for a start, looking at who you are what type of person you are and changing gender my freind just cos your Girlfreind is a lesbian.... aint a valid reason. NO Surgen will touch you on a whim. Also if your girlfreind or Ex as we are supposed to belive is a lesbian.... erghhh why did she go with you in the first place???? What on earth was the point of this question? I would suggest that prehapes you get yourself some proffesional help? and a life ????
2006-12-18 23:47:13 · answer #2 · answered by djp6314 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh,I'm so sorry to hear that. You should have been more confident as a man.
Now whats done is done.
You may have to find another man or women who excepts you for you. Tell them the truth and try and be strong for yourself and surround yourself with positive, helpful people.
I really feel for you. Hope you find acceptance and i will pray for you.Make the best of life the best way you can.
I'm rooting for you to make the best of life.
2006-12-18 23:47:06 · answer #3 · answered by Lil CeeCee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think your serious. If you are then it sucks to be you. I guess you could just hope to find more lesbians. Or find a girl who will accept you for who you are and not care about the whole thing, good luck with that.
2006-12-18 23:37:01 · answer #4 · answered by crazygranny72 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're talking nonsense. You have to see psychiatrists and live as the gender you wish to become for a year before they even give you hormone treatments, never mind the rest. You could do with seeing a psychiatrist but not for the reason listed above....
2006-12-18 23:57:00 · answer #5 · answered by Little One 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will just have to look for more lesbians, or a very understanding straight girl. What a situation... That's why in this country you have to have lived as a woman for a certain number of years. It prevents this type of situation happening. I so hope for your sake this is made up!
2006-12-18 23:46:53 · answer #6 · answered by Jo_Diva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JESUS, MARY, and JOESPH...
Did you really do that ???
If so I'd say you were in a bit of a pickle.....
I don't know what to tell you .....JESUS.... I can't believe it...It just doesn't make sense to me why you would put yourself through that for a chick.....
I guess you need to just make the best with what you have, Try and live as normal a life as possible. If you date other women, well there going to be in for a surprise. But you don't know until you try.
Good luck, and if this is a just a story to respond to, well it's a good one....
2006-12-18 23:38:55 · answer #7 · answered by Clyde 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why would you do that to yourself???
There is no reason to change your sex just cause a woman says she loves girls now. no matter how much you loved her...
find some other lesbians then it will work out i guess, nothing else to say
2006-12-18 23:33:53 · answer #8 · answered by silket23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why on earth did you even go there for some flesh that is as selfish and self centered as your ex. She disgusts me and you, I can't believe the stupidity.
Go and get some counselling or have one more surgery, its called 'strapmidictumeback!'
You egg head
2006-12-18 23:38:20 · answer #9 · answered by saynhope 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sure i read this yesterday...
If your serious, seeing you posted this 2 or 3 times, then you really need some professional help seeing what you did is not normal. No girl is worth changing who you are
2006-12-18 23:32:44 · answer #10 · answered by Oz 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion. You're a complete idiot.
Ok you loved her, but if she doesn't love you anymore,
changing into a female won't help.
now you're stuck in a body you don't want
Plus, you can never have your own children now.
2006-12-18 23:34:39 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋