i have three children from two failed relationships theyve both left i cant c no romance in my future im content with my kids but i would love some male company occasionally.
2006-12-18 22:47:37 · 33 answers · asked by missg 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because like most women you've gone your whole life rejecting decent guys in favor of the exciting jerks that you prefer. It's hard to break a habit like that I guess.
2006-12-18 22:51:51 · answer #1 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You going to have to take a long hard look in the mirror and ask yourself a few hard hitting questions here?
first, 3 kids with 2 failed blokes, - what attracts you to blokes in the first place... if you are looking for the exciting life, then sometimes we get what we wish for.
next, you have to ask yourself, where do you meet these blokes? night out girl? Vodka is not the best companion to dating.
You now have 3 kids, which is a big burden on your social abilities to go hunting for Mr right. I don't want to be mean, but you should have spent a little more time on number one, but hey girl, I made the same mistake, so wisdom is not much good in retrospect.
So now you have little opportunity to find Mr right by socialising as a single woman, you will have to rely on your friends. They may be up to their armpits with kids, and unable to help at the moment, which means, as son as you get the kids back into school/kindergarten, you got to get back out there and socialise with the girls, sober, and often.
That's your best bet to meeting somebody nice, because you don't have the time to really sum up a bloke on a short rest bite whilst mums babysitting, and good friends usually will look out for you, when they suggest a 'man' - however their taste sucks sometimes, so don't expect instant miracles.
Failing that, laundries, you will find single chaps - and ones without domineering mothers lol - just pretend your washing machine has broken, i was chatted up that way.
2006-12-18 23:03:56 · answer #2 · answered by DAVID C 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
For my personal experience, a nice guy doesn't drink or eat meat. When they do, it is very likely he will not be nice in other things in life too. Think, a man that is vegan or vegetarian, that worries about the welfare and suffering of animals and understand the environmental, health, etc reasons for the humans to be vegan or vegetarian is bond to be a very nice guy, not selfish, insensible that aims to just gratify his senses (especially the thong (eat meat even knowing the cruelty behind it, and sex without respect for the woman).
I am divorced myself with a 5 years old kid and i met 3 lovely men that care very much for me and loves my child and want to marry me and be her dad. 2 are vegetarian, the other is vegan, they have nice job, don't drink or smoke, are Hindus (besides one is African, the other American e the other Italian). Now it is up for me to decide witch one . I met them on the www.greensingles.com, www.veggieromance.com
People that are cruel towards animals are cruel or no so nice towards anyone else, what I think . www.ivu.org. Good luck.
2006-12-18 23:23:21 · answer #3 · answered by Jerome 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as though you have a great family unit with your kids but I'm not surprised you would want some male company sometimes too.
I reckon there are decent guys out there so keep your eyes peeled and you never know where you will meet them!
2006-12-19 02:14:48 · answer #4 · answered by girly girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably looking too hard or are blind when one comes your way. It's hard to see a nice guy when you're used to ***holes. Concentrate more on your kids, go out with them and eventually a man that is worthwhile keeping and having around your kids will come along. Just keep your eyes open and be accepting to the "nice guy".
2006-12-19 00:21:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to have to say this but, maybe it's not all the guys fault, maybe it's partly yours and your attitude towards men.
You should aim to be equal partners in everyway, show mutual respect and trust. Communication is a major part of a relationship too.
2006-12-18 22:54:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
perhaps you think (deep inside) that you cannot find a man coz of 2 failed marriages..or / and perhaps coz you have kids.
There is soemone loving in you and there will always be someone out there looking for you. Change into a different set of clothes...get you hair done (this is not really nesessary but thie MAY give you a confidence boost). Go outside...to a pub...to a park..on a stroll....parents meeting... you will find your guy out there.
Those who look shall...will find.
2006-12-18 22:54:43 · answer #7 · answered by Tashamster 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i met my most beautiful and wonderful lady when had a terrible hangover in the coffee house she worked in while she was at university. It's now been nearly 2 years and I am asking her to marry me on 16th February....and yes this is real and not a fairy tale or a take off from that Alicia Keys song.....
SO, in short the guy of your dreams will appear when you stop looking and where you least expect him....good luck and merry xmas
2006-12-18 22:51:15 · answer #8 · answered by Nottingham man 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Patience is all what i can suggest you. Children are the greatest source of love and happiness. Wait for that perfect person, i'm sure you will find one, till then enjoy your life with your wonderful kids. Don't be haste in making decisions, wait for it !!!
2006-12-18 22:53:29 · answer #9 · answered by dexter_theboygenius 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Perhaps you look for company in the wrong places...
Maybe not the gem of info your after, but try joining local interests... there may be a decent guy in similar circumstances to yourself.
2006-12-18 22:51:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋