The person I love is not married or even seeing anyone, but she is unavailable, in any way, because of family and emotional issues.
2006-12-18 20:53:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
- Ask GOD to give you wisdom on what to do next, since HE'S the source of all love. One thing for certian, HE has a plan for you. It's whether spiritually you'r not to shallow of a persion to ask. As someone who knows HIM well, I do know what HE'LL tell you - it'll be either ; yes or no or wait or skate or even RUN ! ! !
- MICROW -
2006-12-18 21:17:36 · answer #1 · answered by Mystro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You make your advance and let your emotions be known. then you suffer. You dont press on the person for fear that you may scare them off totally.
You suffer, you wait , you bide your time.
Give it a while, a couple months and try again.
Be soft, be to the point but not too strong. and then wait, suffer and bide your time.
Dont wait too long though. You could go crazy waiting for just one person. If she still isnt into you just move on... go find someone else.
2006-12-19 04:56:47 · answer #2 · answered by timberleigh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The key word is 'unavailable.' Move on. Concentrate on someone who is available.
2006-12-19 04:57:02 · answer #3 · answered by tmills883 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell you love her
and offer to help and step aside
she will know of your sincerity and honesty that way
love doesnt work one way
she has to love you too
only then you can actually term it "love"
but take it steady and easy
do not rush into things
she must be having her reasons for for what she is doing
perhaps she may have been hurt or is sensitive
there can be nth nos of reasons to it
so be careful of what u think is love may not quite be at all!
id say tell her and go slow
2006-12-19 05:03:35 · answer #4 · answered by piscean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u got the options... either try to get the love that u want, or keep waiting for the time to go by, till the time she finds someone who would love her and marry her... and u would just stand there watching it happen..
2006-12-19 04:56:26 · answer #5 · answered by Convict Majnu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be there for the person, Stand by her. If she needs help with her issues, tell her tt u will b found, will try your best to provide her w solutions, n oso listening to her problems oso helps.
If she is happy, u will be.
2006-12-19 04:57:06 · answer #6 · answered by anna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her and she's worth waiting for then wait, but maybe you should tell her how you feel and then see what she says, if she says wait a while, then give her time, but if she says there's no future then, i know its hard, but try get over her...
2006-12-19 04:57:33 · answer #7 · answered by Courtney M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do your best to keep that person in your life, be supportive of her in her situation, and don't try to pressure her into a relationship. It will work itself out.
2006-12-19 04:57:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone is Unavailable,as you say ,you look for someone who is'nt.
2006-12-19 04:55:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait ofcourse, till she is available - and also loves you...
If it is open ended wait,,, then move on...
if u stuck - emotionally - then just pacify urself....(wink!!) - till u are tired the hard way..
2006-12-19 04:59:11 · answer #10 · answered by Sid Has 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋