Are you girls really into the muscles more or do you prefer personality or apperance when you decide if you will sleep with a guy or not? what kind of things would a guy have to say or do to get you to want to sleep with him? what look/style do you prefer in the men you usually sleep with?
2006-12-18 20:52:50 · 17 answers · asked by mr_hozer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Us girls are into sex (almost) as much as you guys.
So, it is not as hard as you guys make it seem to get us into bed!
I'll tell you what I don't like, and then what I like:
I don't like cocky punks, but I like confidence in a man.
I don't like liars, but I like a good story teller.
I don't like clowns, but I like funny guys.
I don't like smart-alecs, but I like intelligent men.
I don't like cowards, but I like a cautious man.
I don't like snobs, but I love a rich man.
I don't like to be told what to do, but I love a man who can take charge.
Are you getting it yet?
confident but not cocky, funny but not a clown, smart but not a smart-a**, you know what I mean?
Looks matter at first, but ultimately, it is the person inside we grow to love, so personality is more important in the long run.
Each individual is unique and so if you are just wanting sex with no committments, you should be honest about that fact, you'll get more respect by being up front and truthful. All girls don't want to get married and have babies, some just want to have fun, and to be successful at getting us into bed, you need to be desirable, if you are not drop dead gorgeous, you will need to spend a lot of time at the gym, because some girls do prefer the muscles, even if you do consider yourself handsome, you will still need to work out, because once you do get a girl to sleep with you, you will need to perform. Some women can sense that a man is a good lover, so practice at pleasing women, never be in a hurry and pay attention to all of her needs.
Also you must always be clean and smell good, do not put on too much cologne, just smell naturally clean.
If all else fails, you could get a hooker!
2006-12-18 21:52:17 · answer #1 · answered by barbiesexbomb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off I hope you actually have feelings for this girl and arnt just trying to get her into bed.
Its a mixture of everything really, looks and personality - all women have their own preferences, but the most important thing is if we really like the guy or not. It just depends.
2006-12-18 20:56:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy would just have to be honest, kind and trustworthy. Image is not all that important, as long as he is well groomed. My boyfriend is a stick-like, hairy man with bad eyesight but he is a gentlemen, and an animal :3
2006-12-18 20:55:33 · answer #3 · answered by *Chinisu* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to gym or do some exercise (they like good bodies althought they wont tell u)
try 2 be amusing with her
be patient ( they want sex but they want you have 2 work hard to reach them)
be smart and step by step. good luck.
and think there r a lot of girls and ecah one is particular if u dont have results from one doest means that other one wll want something with u
2006-12-18 21:01:32 · answer #4 · answered by peyosuss 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
any type of guy can get any type of girl. all girls are different, and diff girls prefere different things, just be urself and u will find a girl that u can hook up wit. if ur desperate just make a profile on a rating website, the ho's will find you.
2006-12-18 20:56:41 · answer #5 · answered by srapp002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should make a nice guy's image before her.
otherwise try to search on yahoo to get results.
hahahaha
2006-12-18 20:59:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anurag 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahahha... someone who is not desperate and silly. Just be your self! We can see it if you're not being your self and it'll just ruin it! Have a good sense of humor and dont force it happen, make it as natural as possible. Let her in charge and take it easy!
2006-12-18 20:59:38 · answer #7 · answered by minime_risk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im a girl..and ig o for the personality and style...but my cousin goes for size....and my aunt goes for the six packs....it all depends on the woman your after...we are not all the same and i hope all guys are not the same
2006-12-18 20:56:27 · answer #8 · answered by kylee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Money. This works on any woman. Once you have enough nothing else is important to them.
2006-12-18 22:00:42 · answer #9 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks to me like you might need a rufe.
2006-12-18 20:55:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋