What do you think and why ???
-Guys/Girls if you are a virgin are you a virgin by choice ?
-Guys/Girls if you are NOT a virgin do you wish you could be again and were you embarrassed when you were a virgin ?
My Answer:
I think it is Empowering and a little Overrated
I am a virgin by choice (Waiting till marriage)
2006-12-18 20:17:49 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Out of these three, I would say Virginity is definitely overrated... Virginity has been so over-hyped, Whats empowering or embarrassing about being a virgin? this is just a state of being, a person who hasn't had intercourse, intentionally or unintentionally... it is a decision we consciously or sub-consciously take. in the same way, when a girl has her periods or a guy has his night-fall, sex is just that... it is a process, we bring emotions and right or wrong and guilty pleasures into it... so, in the same way, I find sex to be overrated and mis-understood... so it goes with virginity... it is no big deal, and nothing to be empowered by or embarrassed by... we chose or not chose to have intercourse, that's it... period...
2006-12-18 20:19:57 · answer #1 · answered by publically_private 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I hope you don't mind a mans point . I think it's underrated because it seems that there are a lot of women/girls now that are ready to put out. But they don't seem to understand that when they put out they fall into the same category as all the rest. Guys just think they are easy so he gets what he wants and moves on. The woman ends up hurt and not knowing that he thinks that she is no better than the rest. That's why i say don't be so willing to give it away. Show the guys that you are different and special . Be careful there are guys that just want to pop a virgin where they can have some thing to brag about.
2006-12-18 20:29:41 · answer #2 · answered by Sarcastic Sid 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i know I'm not suppose to ask question but what u meant by choice?
other than that it always depend, in a lot of situation always depend if you a guy and hang out with guys that using the other "head" most of time then u'll be laughing stock but the bright side for me personally , a lot of time you can see through them about how they see things in life , What matter the most is it sex matter more or love matter more, appreciation or just simply ego.
Personal experience and opinion , people who think that virginity is a laughing stock most of the time, they are not to friendly and be friend with you only and if only you don't be yourself and be like them.
and people who think is empowering usually they nice,friendly
but in some extreme cases they toward naive.
Anyway both of the people above they are definitely nosy because why in the world you need to know that at the first place : ) (sorry that is true to many people ask me that question the first time the hang out with me HUH i wonder why ) :-)
2006-12-18 20:34:35 · answer #3 · answered by mazdaspeedprotege 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Definately overrated. I don't agree with holding onto it until marriage because I believe sex is a huge part in a marriage and has a lot to do with a couple staying together. I would never wish to be a virgin again. I enjoy being experienced sexually. It gives me confidence and makes me very comfortable with my body and who I am. I believe that those who hold it up to be something extremely special have a false idea of what it should be. In saying this though, I commend you for your choice and IT IS YOUR choice. I just hope that you get lucky and marry someone that is compatible with you sexually and the two of you can learn to work well with each other. If you can't, you're in for a lifetime of misery. Sex & love are best when they work together but are two entirely different things.
2006-12-18 20:48:12 · answer #4 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Overrated. I'm not a virgin anymore and I have to say I am very glad about the choice. I'd never go back again, mostly because I had put losing it on such a high pedistal, and when it was over, I was like.... that's it? What the hell is the big deal about losing it? Okay, lets try this again...
2006-12-18 20:20:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
There is a joke that goes like this, "What is the difference between a pregnant women and a light bulb?" "You can unscrew a light bulb. Thats what this question reminds me of. It is virtuous to hold on to your virginity. I know that wasn't one of the options, but I dont believe it is any of the things you listed. You can never get it back, so its one of those things that you can only think hard about before, not after. I also believe its different for females than males. Here's why. Everything on a man is external. A woman has to invite and accept a man into her body, its a lot more intrusive. Losing your virginity is not the end of the world either but it will break your daddys heart. Not looking forward to my daughter growing up to that point. Unless this is a guy asking the question the sack up and get some stanky on your hang down bro. WTF
2006-12-18 20:27:05 · answer #6 · answered by peardietz 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Virgin by choice is empowering.
Virgin by default is nothing.
Anyone can lose their virginity. Only strong and determined people can wait for marriage and the right person.
Good for you for being strong and waiting
2006-12-18 20:20:25 · answer #7 · answered by Me 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I am a virgin by choice (and a man). I like it and I think it is underrated. I want to save myself for marriage. Good night!
2006-12-18 20:21:18 · answer #8 · answered by anonymous 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i am a virgin by choice. same as my bf. we're waiting for marriage too. i'm 21 and i think it is empowering! :)
good for you being a virgin too :D
2006-12-18 20:46:24 · answer #9 · answered by wat_more_can_i_say? 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It's empowering, and it's NOT overrated. It allows you a sense of wholeness, of purity, and of value. I highly respect anyone who chooses to remain a virgin until marriage. Why? To protect how sacred marriage and sex are. To protect how sacred you are. To completely remove the factor of STD's, teenage pregnancy, HIV, etc. To completely remove the factor of being used sexually, of having your heart broken, etc.
I'm 21, and I waited til marriage. At least I don't have to fear some random man walking up to my husband and telling him about how he knows me intimately. I don't think anyone wants to hear that about the person they love.
The saying goes, you can be like them in 5 minutes, but they can never be like you.
2006-12-19 04:38:39 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋