I'm 22, and over a week ago i slept with an almost friend of mine. i contacted him a few days after to let him know i had fun, and that i would like to see him again. i would like to keep up the sexual side of the relationship. I ve never done this, always a steady type of girl, but i'm ready for a change. i don't want anything serious, I'm moving in a few months across the country. how should i approach him with this information, and see if he is interested. for example tomorrowi have the night off, and i m thinking about calling him to come over, when should i call. i've never done a booty call before, should i wait till as late as possible to call. like in the evening.
2006-12-18 17:30:42 · 11 answers · asked by samdreamland 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would call in the afternoon,and just say you chillen alone at home that night and it would be cool if he wanted to stop by,if he comes then get your freak on then after explain how you feel about the situation,he's a man I'm sure he won't mind one bit!
2006-12-18 17:34:21 · answer #1 · answered by molliehollie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait till the evening and don't say "come over i want s**"
No! Just say you'd like to talk and have some tea or whatever. He'll know what you're thinking but somehow it works better. And wait till as late as possible to notify him. IT'S MORE EXCITING THAT WAY!
2006-12-19 01:42:37 · answer #2 · answered by thank you come again 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure it is not only what you want, but what he wants as well. When sex is added to a situation, attachment happens, and your friend may be attached to you now because of what happened and he may expect a relationship to start. If this is not the case, then I would be sure to talk to him about it and if he is ok with it and you are ok with it, then go for it.
2006-12-19 01:34:50 · answer #3 · answered by snookums 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should really call him at night and have him come over on his day off. On the day off he will be stress free (I think) so he may not be as mad (or something like that) as he would be if he was really stressed out.
2006-12-19 01:38:37 · answer #4 · answered by Pop 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with him most guys are just okay with having sex. And no strings attatched. Just make sure you don't get feelings that sometimes creep up on booty calls. And make sure mentally you have prepared yourself for only sex.
2006-12-19 01:34:59 · answer #5 · answered by ahkc4life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just call him......tell you need to get laid....he will be speechless and head over immediately!
2006-12-19 01:34:46 · answer #6 · answered by WitchTwo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him at work
2006-12-19 01:32:57 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him before he goes to bed :D
2006-12-19 01:35:31 · answer #8 · answered by Ali 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a reason, and do it now......
2006-12-19 01:32:49 · answer #9 · answered by samaustinashlee_billiewjr 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell her
2006-12-19 01:41:06 · answer #10 · answered by sandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋