Can love turn into indifference?...wat can i do to stop the process?...is it too late??

Question

ok here i go again...but this problem just wont leave me alone...
this chick...to me shes a perfect 10..she is well rounded...as in physical and personality is concerned...but we've had this problem...cuz everything we do...we have to hide it..(she has a boy friend...she says she cant leave him cuz his life is fuked up and she is the only person he has...and if she leaves him he would kill him self..literally) ok so i see her in school and shes always so cold..and when i ask her why...shes like "i have a reason to be cold" but she just doesnt tell me wat it is...and i no its not only to avoid ppl thinkin we have sumthin together...cuz thts not it i no it...so lately ive been ignoring the problem...i still talk to her but i feel very distant...as days pass by...i start feeling like i could careless if i saw her or not...i feel tht if she would just let go...we would both be very happy...but idk...ive had thoughts of just walking away from the whole situation but im afraid to regret it

well yes but...i really care for her...and i do feel she is suffering (a little) i dont wanna leave her alone...i dont wanna feel guilty...cuz i really do care for her...

Answer 1

You should run far away from her! She doesn't care for you, it seems. You deserve much better treatment than that. I don't see this going anywhere. Good luck with the next one!

Answer 2

She's trying to save a man with an illness and their relationship is not healthy. She will never leave him because she feels responsible for his life and she also feels important for that. I know because I have been in that situation and I still fight it today. My ex has told me the very same thing about "If you leave me I have no one and I'll just kill myself". They use that to blackmail people emotionally and it works! I t worked on me and he still has a hold but It's not as strong as it used to be.
Nothing you could tell her will make her change her mind. She will have to discover his scheme on her own. It sounds harsh but its the truth.
Good luck and just keep being a good friend. She will need you later on.

Answer 3

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Answer 4

You have every right to just walk away and to feel right about it. She is not there for you.

Answer 5

walk away and feel GOOD about it. it's the right way to go.

Answer 6

this is some what a complex..... u know there is a slight difference between love and hatred...... in this situation u can't manage i think.... and she does not look like she is for u.... she is not fare with u... so leave her ....

Answer 7

why dont you tell her that you also may kill yourself, if she does not start showing some more affection towards you.

Answer 8

walk away!!!