How can I get my confidence back?

Question

I have recently decided that I need a change in my life, I need to pick up the pieces and make something more positive with myself, ego and life. After having so many failed relationships, I am a depressed wreck in the inside. I was with some girls that really made me feel bad about my sexual capability, the size of my penis...now I am more knowledgable of this whole penis size debate, I realize that I do not lack in size when it comes to my equipment. It measures ini at 5.5 - 6 inches, which is indeed the reported average sized penis across the globe. But deep down inside of me, I am afraid to talk to another girl, or even go further to have sexual relations. I am not insecure, just afraid of what is unknown. The 1st girl that hurt me, used it for control. I am a very attractive man, and she wanted to keep me.The 2nd girl that TRIED to hurt me was my babies mother, now she looks dumb because the supposed small dick left her.The 3rd girl never hurt me, just stated that she like em thik

Answer 1

stop dating whores

Answer 2

Dude, you've got a 'smaller' sized penis. If you are smart, you could even catch the fact that "teenie" pointed that out to you unvoluntarily. If it is not at least like 6.75 in., and not very thick, MOST girls will consider you a small guy, trust me. Mine is a little over six, and I have had two girls tell me I was small, and two that were suppossedly nice enough to not mention anything. Ironically, when my penis was all the way erect and when I was having sex with the second girl, I asked her if I felt small, and she said no, and she could barely breath. Still, I was only like her 4th or 5th guy that she slept with, which is probably why she was having like a breathing attack or something.

You've got to understand that what a young, sexually active women wants sexually, you do not have. Women arent "sluts" or "whores" just because they like sex with big penis'. Women are naturally, and primitively attracted to a large masculine man with a large masculine penis. There are many reasons why women like it:

A big penis is visually stimulating to the female. They love to look at, touch, and play with larger sized penis'. Some females like the challenge of trying to deepthroat a larger sized penis. A guy with a larger size has much more dominance sexually, which makes the female feel like a women, instead of looking at a small penis and being like "well I can handle that little thing no problem".

As far as intercourse goes: You may not know, by a female actually gets sexually aroused just like a male. And when the female genetilia is in arousal mode, it is generally called "tenting". During this phase, the cervix and the uterus actually RETRACT further inside of the womans body, and the length and width of the womens vagina actually increases in size. At this point(when the girl is really turned on), she is able to handle a large sized penis, and if the guy knows how to hit it without bumping up against the cervix DIRECTLY, he is able to give the girl one of the best feelings shes ever felt. Women absolutely LOVE the feeling of being filled up and stretched out by a large penis, and most women(if they are smart), will take a large size over a smaller sized one any day of the week. It is called natural selection.

Obviously there can be other factors with this kind of thing, namely, the size of a womens vagina. Just like men, women come in different sizes as well. This means that vagina size comes in small, medium, and large. The average size of a females vagina during the aroused state is usually going to be about 5-7 inches, and an average size(if its real thick) could actually give a women the 'filled up' feeling. However, the vagina can actually stretch several inches farther than 7 inches, and a female is going to generally LOVE the feeling of being stretched out, provided that she has been aroused before hand.

So it is true that you are far under-par, sexually(based on size alone), as far as the female preference is concerned. If you understand simple mathematics, or just means and averages in general... You will understand that an "average" is only a MID RANGE. That said, there are approximately 1% of people included within the study that actually fell EXACTLY on the average size; and there are approximately 50% of individuals that were larger and approximately 50% that were smaller than the exact average. SO again, if you've seen a study that lists 6 inchs as its average, about 50 percent of people were bigger than 6 inches, and 50% of people were smaller than six inches. So it is true that an "average" doesnt really do you much good, 6 inches is still considered a small penis by women unless it is pretty thick.

Answer 3

II am a older woman and I'll tell you this if you no how to please a woman down below then the size of your penis does not matter.99% of all woman would agree with me . Here is what you do work her cit with your toge no where else just there right before she starts to get off stop and put your penis in her. She will love you forever.

Answer 4

gee man an itallion stallion without confidence, thats a real bad thing, kind of takes the lead out of the pencil dont it.

Answer 5

i agree with the guy above