This is what the story is. I had been good friends with this girl for quite a long time. I'm 21 and she is nearly 18 (we went out for a month or so last year). Well, I ended up talking to her a few weeks ago and she wanted to see me again and I asked her if she wanted to date again. Well, she said that she is attracted to me but wanted to hang out more and told me to call her the next day. For the next two weeks whenever we had a date, she would go off without calling me to go do something else. When I tried to ring her, she got one of her drugged up buddies to bullshit to me that I had the wrong phone number. In front of two friends when I got through again she told me she wasnt at home (where she told me she would be earlier and how she was out at a friends place. When I asked where this friend was she just kept asking Why? Why? Then when I said bye she just hung up on me today.
2006-12-18 17:19:50 · 15 answers · asked by Valhalla Viking 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She keeps emphazing that she has personal problems and how she cant help it and using it to her justifying her jekyll and hyde actions. Just 30 minutes ago she got upset when I wouldnt accept her apology for embarassing me in front of two of my friends. Then when I said her path is going to lead her to a path of loneliness and destruction, she started getting upset because after she just asked me out, I was rude to her. Now she is playing the sympathy card and trying to make me into a heartless monster.
What would you do in my position, because when I asked this question, she never gave me an answer....
I wont ever go out with her again and will probably not give her the time of day. I gave her the benefit of the doubt plenty of times just for her to spit them back in my face with insincere excuses, and continues to emphasize how much she likes me
2006-12-18 17:24:06 · update #1
Ditch the B@#ch.... she is obviously not worth anything...
2006-12-18 17:23:47 · answer #1 · answered by crimson_carnage 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
move on. You don't need the games or the disrespect. and maybe this will teach her not to take people for granted. You'll miss misses right trying to get her to come around. I predict you two will be good friends in a matter of weeks. If she asks you why you don't call her so much or ask her out. just say tell her how you feel and that she disrespected you. I hope that helps
2006-12-19 01:24:50 · answer #2 · answered by Armond B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop calling her. She's not interested and she's blowing you off, and there's no way you can force her to be attracted to you. She lied about it earlier because she was either too much of a coward to let you down, or she's holding you in reserve in case her other prospects don't work out.
Start looking elsewhere, and good luck.
2006-12-19 01:24:02 · answer #3 · answered by Steve 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it up, friend. She obviously can't tell you exactly what she's feeling toward you, which is unfortunate, but her actions are speaking louder than words--she obviously doesn't want to talk to you. Don't be treated this way. It may hurt to walk away, but the ocean is a huge ocean. There are many, many more fish (and mermaids).
2006-12-19 01:23:57 · answer #4 · answered by Dont_Tread_On_Me 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just TAP that *** from time to time...just be careful and wear a condom///Obviously she does not care for much a relationship..neither should you...but dont kick her to the curb...keep her in stock for some fun from time to time..You feel me?
You owe her nothing she is playing kiddie games, both are too young anyway for serious relationship....geeeez
2006-12-19 01:38:47 · answer #5 · answered by nuance92551 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like bad news. She is sending all the wrong signals. If I were you, I'd forget about her and concern myself with women who are mature and will give you the time of day. It sounds like she is leading you on because she likes the attention.
2006-12-19 01:24:56 · answer #6 · answered by Jdeezy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget it, it will only lead to heart ache if you do end up seeing this girl. Leave it alone move on and don't ring her again.
2006-12-19 01:31:39 · answer #7 · answered by shellhiggs07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
donot think so much of a girl and waste time.if she is the true love then she will be urs .my advice is leave her alone donot keep in touch with her for 1 or 2 months,just wait and watch.be cool in life ,donot panic so much.
2006-12-19 01:25:59 · answer #8 · answered by reena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would RUN not walk away from this troubled one!!!
I am sure you can do better, and you KNOW you deserve better!!! She is messed up!!!! Sounds like some of her "drug buddies" are rubbing off on her!!! Don't get into this mess!!!
Good luck!
2006-12-19 01:23:17 · answer #9 · answered by photogram1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave her alone for a while find someone new & call her after a month let her know u found someone else then she will want u
2006-12-19 01:21:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is jerking you around- why??? her way of weird control- forget that = and move on-take care and Merry Christmas-D
2006-12-19 01:24:07 · answer #11 · answered by Debby B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋