IHi eveyrone i'm a 20yr old guy i'm juss wondering if there's any1 out dere who feels da same way as me...It's gonna be such a lonely xmas and new yrs eve for me...like i don't have any special ppl to buy xmas presents to ..well da fact is that i don't even have a job to accumulate money to buy sumthing...like i was shopping with friends da other day...only to be depressed that i don't have any1 and any money to buy presents for...and everyone seems to have someone that they can really lean on to..unlike me...i'm feeling as if i'm gonna be spending time like this for rest of my life...
Is anyone feeling like me?? ; S ; S ; S
(On the verge of losing myself)
2006-12-18 16:55:38 · 12 answers · asked by KKK 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The best fix for that, make a New Year's Resolution to get a job. That's the best way to meet people, plus you'll have money. Eventually, you'll have good money, if you work hard, and you'll meet someone you really care for.
2006-12-18 16:58:54 · answer #1 · answered by AirborneKappaSigma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi amigo - Life is what U make out of it , U never make friends by
buying them gifts , and who said that Christmas means gifts ? yeah nice if u can afford it BUT then if u do not have a gift to give someone on Christmas day ,it is still Christmas day isnt it ?
Listen to the popular Christmas carol - DRUMMER BOY. . .
" I have no gifts to bring ahh ram pa pa pam >>>
then He smiled at me ahh ra pa pa pam . . me and my drum "
Be the drummer boy amigo , U are what u make yourself to be
U may be lonely but I CAN TELL U HAVE A BIG HEART
follow your heart - soon lonely will be a word for someone else
NOT YOU - I Lost my Dad last year , following this My Mum in 3 months suffered a stroke and is paralysed - I am so , so torn up inside - so hurt - Yet I know the tears shall roll down soon on Christmas day , I shall let that happen but I Shall not give up as Gods Child here on earth - I shall look at the skies and say " THY WILL BE DONE OH LORD _ and I shall see my loved one beside me , I am 37 and I feel this way - You are 20 buddy , you have the whole world ahead - make the best - U DESERVE
THE BEST AND TRUST ME U SHALL HAVE THE BEST
If u ever want to talk E-mail me michquadros@yahoo.com
Take good care and smile - Merry Christmas amigo
2006-12-18 17:14:15 · answer #2 · answered by michael 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do no longer comprehend in case you're religious or no longer in case you're i could advise going to candlelight provider on Christmas Eve. i could placed up my decorations so the temper is desperate for Christmas making you sense part of the holiday. On Christmas Day in case you haven't any longer have been given a place to pass, call acquaintances or family individuals individuals which you haven't any longer talked to in a protracted time. (consistently cheers me up) Take upon your self to have a Merry Lil Christmas by utilising basically doing somethings only for you. in case you do no longer prefer to pass out and consume order something in. Be a volunteer at a shield it quite is the ideal feeling you get extra out of it than you supply I promise. maximum of all attempt and sense reliable approximately you. a individual isn't consistently judged by utilising how many acquaintances they have yet how many authentic acquaintances. I do desire you get some help out of this. in case you lived on the fringe of me i could have you ever for Christmas!! I easily have had militia adult adult males that i did no longer comprehend they have been lonely faraway from residing house and that i felt great excitement by utilising being a ingredient of their Christmas. even with each and everything that's no longer what we get that's what we supply of ourselves. Have peace. in actual fact Jeannie
2016-10-05 12:04:22 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
holidays makes someone happy or sad. Just try and get through the holidays and get into next year. I am also single and have the same feeling every holiday. hope u feel better . good luck and happy holidays
2006-12-18 16:59:56 · answer #4 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes feelin very much da same...well 2 tel da truth i luv someone who lives very far n its ***
every xmas i spend by myself n wonder if it'll eva b any better and it never gets better
he tells me 2 hold on n b w/someone if i hav 2 but i can't...no one out there...
i hate holidays
feel better man
2006-12-18 17:00:16 · answer #5 · answered by spikey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey there, friend, you are ok. I myself go out and volunteer and local churches and secular events. Give what you can, that is all that matters. Happy Holidays to you.
2006-12-18 16:59:56 · answer #6 · answered by samaustinashlee_billiewjr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try God, go to a Bible teaching church. Jesus loves you! He has a plan for your life, trust in Him and He will never leave you lonely.After all we are celebrating Jesus birthday, get to know Him!
2006-12-18 17:07:56 · answer #7 · answered by PLEASE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually Christmas is not about giving gifts and spending money its about God who was born to save us all..
Godbless..
2006-12-18 17:00:41 · answer #8 · answered by Joshua Daryl O 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hook up yo! there u go 2 lonely ppl!
2006-12-18 16:58:14 · answer #9 · answered by akihabro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
totaly know how you feel,holidays can be lonely
2006-12-18 17:00:24 · answer #10 · answered by billup d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋