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ppl said it is my fault for not being able to defend myself but it seems unfair especially when he wouldnt let me go after I said uncle

2006-12-18 16:54:04 · 9 answers · asked by m m 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Stop fighting.. If you have to fight do it for the right reasons and take down your opponent honorably/respectfully..

Don't make him cry defeat "uncle" at the end and just finish him off and leave. Simple as that, anything beside that will probably end in another fight where you might get your cake smashed.

Hehe, cake smashed, I just made that up.. :)..

When you just leave it's saying that you don't want to escalate this and just want it to end and it makes the other guy look bad since people will think only he is trying to keep the fire going...

Anyways don't pick on others, because then people like me will get pissed, and it's not a very good feeling to get me pissed..

Oh yeah.. By the way the best way to win a fight is to avoid it completely... Take the long way instead of the the dark short cut next time. But yeah once the fight ends then just leave, and NEVER put your fists down or your guard down. A fight should be honorable and no dirty play, after the fight is over and he pulls something foul over you then you can just go dirty on him...

But a fight is technically never over until you get out from any danger from that guy what so ever. But if this is a bully that is being very mean to you and abusing you physically, then well you knock him on the ground and beat his *** and teach him that you aren't going to take **** and when he finally surrenders kick him a bit more and then stop. In a military like view, you take the opponent out until he isn't a threat anymore, but don't do this for a fight just for being bullied or in a life-threatening situation.. Good luck and peace.

2006-12-18 17:04:19 · answer #1 · answered by Shadowfox 4 · 0 1

Yes, it is. First of all, it's not your fault that you cannot defend yourself. There is ALWAYS someone who can beat you up, no matter how strong or talented you are. I don't know what to tell you. They're sticking up for the chump because he's popular, I guess. I'm not saying you should do anything to him, but there are many ways to get even on the sly. He can beat you in a direct confrontation, it seems. But he cannot watch his back all the time.

People never messed with me too much. I think I give off some sort of creepy aura or something. Even my friends tell me that I scare them sometimes. The sad thing is that I'm not even trying! I'm not a big ugly dude either. It's not always a good thing to be very intimidating.

Try to learn how to fight. And also learn how to avoid fights. I think you will have trouble regaining respect with the people who saw you. I really hope you didn't start that fight. I've been told by one guy that if you did not start the fight and do not fight back in front of specatators, you can hurt the other guy worse than if you beat him up. Just keep getting up and letting him hit you. No one will like him after that. But you have to be sure that he isn't like going to permanently injure you first. I wouldn't want to lose a tooth just to embarrass some guy. Good night!

2006-12-19 01:06:49 · answer #2 · answered by anonymous 7 · 1 0

And what was wrong with you where u couldn't defend yourself after the fight was over? I mean if his guy was pounding on you like that, i would have took my chances and ran outta there!!!! obviously, you need some self defense classes to brush up a little, and maybe a few protein shakes to give u that extra "boost" so next time the jerk will know who's boss! Gimme a break........

2006-12-19 01:00:55 · answer #3 · answered by Ebony da *Dimepiece* 3 · 0 1

I would say that by doing that, this person is proving to everyone else what a ridiculous showoff he is as well as a bad winner! Don't worry, any decent person will see him for what he is and believe me, he won't be thought well of. As for what the people said to you, well they are worthless individuals, and maybe they need to step up and fight the idiot themselves! Tell them to show you how it is DONE since they know so much!

2006-12-19 01:05:29 · answer #4 · answered by PZ 3 · 1 0

you are lucky you didn't fight me, i would make you cry uncle and then knock you out and piss all over you too

how wimpy can you get, a fight is a fight, there are no rules of conduct, the only rule is to win, by any means necessary

2006-12-19 00:59:45 · answer #5 · answered by zether 6 · 1 3

Yes I think it really is mean
My opinion is he is a bully
After this message I hope you feel better

2006-12-19 00:58:23 · answer #6 · answered by . 2 · 1 1

sort ya act out ya cry baby. move on and remember, pick on someone smaller next time

2006-12-19 00:58:04 · answer #7 · answered by a_bike_guy 4 · 0 2

Who ever "he" is, he's a jerk. Stay away from him so he find someone else to torment.

2006-12-19 00:59:59 · answer #8 · answered by clovrblssm 1 · 1 1

It is your falut. Grow some balls.

2006-12-19 00:56:17 · answer #9 · answered by chastonn b 2 · 0 3

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