Knowing that my ex can get into crazy situations, listen to this teory that I have put together about what was beengoing on with him. Remember that I don't want him back!
As of last thanksgiving we were on good terms and he was wanting us(my son and I) to visit him for the holidays. I knew that he had slept with a woman and I could not say too much about it since we were not officially together but trying to work on it. He told me that she told him she loved him and he told her that he did not feelthe same. She got upset and he also likes to talk about his son and I to people and she was one and she didn't like me cuz she jealous. After Thanksgiving he was arrested for a violation that is in the system but it does look like a mistake cuz he was locked up at the time anyway.Well she bonds him out and after that he calls and tells me that they are in a relationship and she is pregnant and they are living in a motel. I was shocked cuz it came out of nowhere.
2006-12-18 16:53:14 · 13 answers · asked by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
My theory is that she told him to break it off with me and make up a baby and she would bond him out. He keeps telling me that there is more that I don't understand and things are not as they seem. He don't love her but he's doing this till he gets a place.Is it too crazy? But I know him and his life is crazy.
2006-12-18 16:55:15 · update #1
He has never mentioned a baby and she never went to a clinic and it is all very fishy.
2006-12-18 16:56:24 · update #2
I'm not trailer trash like you man
2006-12-18 16:57:34 · update #3
I have bailed him out in the past over 3 times and I know him for over 10 years.He still thinks I want him but after he tries to make me look like a fool I can't be his fool anymore.
2006-12-18 16:59:21 · update #4
He was renting a room and then we(me and son) was staying at a hotel. But after he went to jail he was kicked out by his landlady. He was locked uo in 2000 when the arrest warrant was issued and its on public record I checked myself. That is one thing he told the truth about.
2006-12-18 17:28:15 · update #5
Honey, move on from him and never look back. He is completely undeserving of your love. Just make sure he is paying child support. He's been arrested so many times! I'm sorry you've had to go through this and I am also sad for the woman that put up the bond. She is going to get screwed too. You deserve happiness! He sounds like he would be a terrible influence on your son as he has proven time and time again that he cannot get his act straight.
Star - I believe she means that he was arrested for doing something he couldn't have done because he was in jail at the time the crime was committed.
Get rid of him C.J. I know it is more difficult than it sounds but I would not allow him any contact with you at all. You sound intelligent and kind and he is finding it easy to use women. Why they would lie about a pregnancy is beyond me, but that is the least of your worries.
After ten years of this, you deserve a man who is wonderful to you. You've deserved a wonderful man from the very beginning. Now you just need to realize that within yourself. I hope that this is a start for you.
2006-12-18 17:28:59 · answer #1 · answered by Me, Thrice-Baked 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All i can say girl is SHE GOT EM!! He felt more closer to her because she belled him out. He felt when she did that she really cared for him or maybe he just feels he can use her and stay with her since she is so naive! Or maybe he just came to his sences that you didn't want him like he wants you.
Please dont be mad at me for saying this but he is playing both of you and the other women is now doing the same things you were doing for him. Forget him and pray that you will be free of this stress and DRAMA! You deserve alot better. He is tearing you down emotionally and you can not deny this. You will find better. He has too much baggage and he needs to be a man and stop relying on women to take care of him!
2006-12-18 16:54:19 · answer #2 · answered by LaToya J 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-05 12:04:12 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has been using you for the past 10 years! You deserve better than that....for yourself and your son. I know it is hard when you truly care about someone. You just need to move on. When I was younger..... I was dated a guy who was living with someone else who he claimed he did not love anymore. I told him if he wanted to be with me then he would have to leave her. He told me he had no place to live. My first question to myself was.....Does he really think he is going to move in with me. Then I said to myself do I really want a guy who is staying with this women because he doesn't have a place to live. I said no way and moved on with my life. Your man is staying with this women in a motel because he has no place to live. Sounds like he needs to be a real man and get on his feet and do something for himself. He will never be any good to you unless he can prove that to himself. Good luck in what ever you decide about him.
2006-12-18 17:17:53 · answer #4 · answered by deezy89 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yeah maybe the system made a mistake, but I think he made it all up since he did end up with her.
totally good move to move on, eh?
edit* yeah she was definitely initiating the whole thing, and he bit the bait. There is no baby, just their drama. Tell them both congrats on the invisible baby and ask them how much didn't it weigh when it wasn't born! lol
2006-12-18 16:57:44 · answer #5 · answered by ~blessss♫☼ ♪♥ ☼ ♠♫ ♣☺☻ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when he asked you and your son to visit him for the holidays, where did he expect you to go to visit him, the motel? another thing, how could he arrested if he was already locked up? Do they rearrest someone if they are already in their custody,or was he arrested from another jurisdiction? But...... the answer to your question, yes, its far fetched and if it's all true, seems to be alot of missing pieces to this puzzle. Good luck honey.
2006-12-18 17:12:17 · answer #6 · answered by star 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You had better take a good hard & close look at your self & find better people to be around.
Stop trying to figure it out just move on.
2006-12-18 16:58:46 · answer #7 · answered by Floyd B 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it IS too far fetched and you should just forget that b*st*rd and make friends with another guy friend. don't help him anymore and don't give in to him too. don't even give him another chance because you deserve much better!
2006-12-18 19:32:53 · answer #8 · answered by wat_more_can_i_say? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really seems too farfetched...and if not, well it's way too complicated and unstable for you to think of a relationship wif him-will bring only insecurity and doubts in your life, so i believe you should just ignore him and continue wif your life.
2006-12-18 16:59:22 · answer #9 · answered by nadhace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds some what pathetic
2006-12-18 16:57:58 · answer #10 · answered by Gordita de Oro 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋