I have known this guy for about 2 months and I really really like him. Although hes not the best looking, hes funny and charming. I only know him from outside of school and his life with me is completly seperate from at school. The prob is that he has a gf at school and he didnt try to hide it. I want to ignore it because I like him so much and he likes me. Ive never met his gf and they dont sound so serious. Is it wrong to still like him and date him?
2006-12-18 16:46:58 · 6 answers · asked by Liz . 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'd say be very low-key for now; i know you've never met his girlfriend but she was there first. if he decides he likes her better, it wasn't meant to be with him-at least not right now. if he decides he likes you better, then it's up to him to break up with his current girlfriend-and remember that it's not EVER up to you. let it ride-what happens happens, and it all happens for a reason. good luck.
2006-12-18 16:54:15 · answer #1 · answered by missizzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, think about what kinda guy he would be if he left his gf who he has a serious relationship with for you? Would you really want that kinda guy in your life? What if he does that to you? Don't sell yourself short! You derserve your own bf, not some elses. So stand your ground and have some self respect. Any self respecting female would never try to go after a man that's already envolved. Would you want someone doing that to you?
2006-12-18 17:04:09 · answer #2 · answered by MalinaB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not wrong to like him...but don't date him....if he's really interested in you,he would break up with his gf and get serious with u girl...
2006-12-18 17:43:32 · answer #3 · answered by ed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave him alone if he has a girlfriend.
It is okay to have a crush but not to act on it in this situation.
2006-12-18 16:52:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just leave him and his gf alone. try to move on and focus on something else. good luck and happy holidays
2006-12-18 17:03:41 · answer #5 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is wrong to date him... not to like him
2006-12-18 17:03:10 · answer #6 · answered by MT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋