my bf is a dj and i dont trust him.?

Question

i want to but its hard and hes a looker. so should i just let him go? if he is looking when im around, i wonder what is he doing at these parties. in a case like this i should just let him go right? or am i wrong? he has done things in the past to make me not trust him. what are the odds of him changing. he is 43 and im 37.

Answer 1

If my boyfriend looked at other women while I was with him...I would slap him and walk off...lol. No seriously, that's not cool at all...and you're right to not trust him. If he's looking while you're there, who knows what he does when you're NOT there. There's no relationship if there's no trust...I would break up with him if I were you. You deserve better, and I guarantee there is better out there.

Answer 2

A lot of DJs mess around with girls they meet at parties - so it's very possible that your man might be doing that. And if you don't trust him because of stuff he's already done, you probably can't trust him at those parties either.

Answer 3

Looky here!

So your boyfriend looks at other females. Those are his eyes and he is using them what they are for and that is to see.
I hope you don't think that just because he is with you that he should go blind and no longer see with eyes that other females exist in this world.

If he looks when you are around then he is going to be looking when you're not around. Your insecurities are going to tear this relationship apart.

But if his looking at others is hurting you and causing you heart ache, then maybe this isn't the relationship for you. You can not control where his eyes wonders off to. He's easy to get distracted.

If you can't handle this, then get out, but let it be known that you are getting out because you can't control his eye movements.

Answer 4

at 43 he's not going to change.

If you can't trust what's the point. It's just not worth it.

move on