how can i stop being nervous around girls?

Question

especially around ones i like

Answer 1

masturbate before you go out. Then you wont be so anxious to make an impression and you can just relax.

Answer 2

Well...building your confidence in those situations through experience...

But a trick - it's OK to BE nervous, so long as no one can tell! To LOOK like you're not nervous, keep your body relaxed. If you breath more slowly and deeply than normal (you can do this on the qt) and conciously relax your body. Remember, no one can see what you are thinking, they only see the outside, so if your body is relaxed they'll have no idea how nervous you are. Think carefully before you speak and try to say things or ask questions that are sensible.
If you do this for a while it will get easier and easier. For me this actually now is habit. In situations of stress I automatically relax and start to breath deeper. Developing this skill has been a real value to me many many times.
Try practicing at home, having practiced will make it easier to do when you're in the nervous situation.

Answer 3

Stop putting them on a petistule! Keep in mind that they are only human. I know this sounds rude but remember that even the most beautiful girls have to fart and do all the other things people do. You can lose the sight of common groung which is the way to start conversation if you see them in an un-realistic way in which, you aren't even equal to them.

Answer 4

Well, first of all, think of the girl just as one of your friends that you usually hang with, all you need to do is relax.

Just get the conversation flowing, just be yourself and don't try too hard or it will be disastrous. Once you get the girl comfortable then you will get comfortable and then it will be smooth sailing from there, afterall, we girls dont bite, there is nothing to be afraid of, maybe the girl is desperately awaiting you to make that first move, you can't make your shyness stand in your way of embracing happiness and fullfilling ur desires. :). Hope this helps

Answer 5

Your nervous around girls because you do not have alot of girls as friends. Just start saying hi or conversing with girls and soon you'll lose your nervousness.

Answer 6

When you are around a girl that you like, try just taking a deep breath and just relax, be yourself, just take everything one step at a time, don't try to think about too much stuff involving her at once, just think little by little, she will like it if you are just being yourself you will appear to be more confident...

Answer 7

compliment!!!

cannot go wrong with compliments.

such as:

"My Beatrice, that's a lovely dress."
ditto with the shoes. But only do one on each occasion.
She will have to smile and say thank you after that one. Then she will realize that you were the only person that night to give her a compliment and then you will be on her mind.

Onya!!

Answer 8

Tell them fine girls make you nervous.

Answer 9

Fake it until you make it. Try not to talk a lot but ask the girl questions

Answer 10

try to just become friends with those girls because if you like them and you become riends you won't feel nervous because are you ever nervous around your friends? you could just be their friend and just share personnel stuff.