I need help/advice!!!!?

Question

You are talking to your ex-boyfriend who is trying to get a feel to see where you are mentally. When he say things to you like my mom is taking me out to drinks for my B-Day is it because I wants you to say something along the lines of the two of you doing something, and when you tell him you were having drinks with some girlfriends and he asked what were they drinking and then tell you how he can out drink them is that because he wants to be invited (and no it's not girls only). I don't want it to seem like I am asking silly questions but he just makes me feel like he say things to get a response from me because before I use to so I am trying to see is he just talking or hoping I am that person I was before the brake up who wanted to spend time with him and wanted to include him in everything. Also if he say "I'm irreplaceable" is it because he wants you to tell him he's not. I am just trying to see why he does this.

Answer 1

I know that you are frustrated, and yet probably not yet willing to let go of the relationship..

just to get to the point, if he loves you and wants you he will let you know it, anything else , (just fishing) TO SEE HOW YOUR LIVING WITHOUT HIM,,

READ AND REPEAT THIS NEXT SENTENCE OVER AND OVER,

"THE ONE THAT LOVES THE LEAST, IS THE ONE THAT CONTROLS THE RELATIONSHIP"

just get on with your life, and avoid the mind games, and besides, if you have to play and figure out games with him,, after al you meant together, than is it worth it?

GOOD LUCK

Answer 2

Frankly,your explanation is a bit confusing.However, from what I can gather , you want to know whether you can go back to your ex.
I suggest you re-look at why you broke up in the first place? What was it about him that pissed you off? If he has not changed his behaviour / reason for the break up - stay away.Its that simple...

Answer 3

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