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Alright here is the situation. It all started one month ago. There is this beautiful girl that everyone likes a lot, including me of course. She started giving me signs that she liked me, so I proceeded to make the next move. We went to a basketball game together where I met her father, and things went well. A group of friends and here went to the movies, in which we ended up holding hands the entire night. The following day she goes out of town which sucked. I told her I liked her and she said she liked me too and things were going great. We were texting like crazy as well. All of a sudden she stops texting me, and we started avoiding each other. This hurt me because i felt very strongly about her. 2 weeks later, we went to a school related thing together, and she proceeded to make moves. I then said ok, cool things are good again. We started texting again. She had a party on Sat, and we ended up holding hands and cuddling and wow it was intense. Ok, no space left, continue reading...

2006-12-18 16:14:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

The next day, after the party where we held hands and she ignored everyone at her own party but me and everyone noticed, I text her. She didn't respond but she said she was at a play or something with her mom. I had to send like 3 texts before she responded. She did and we talked for like 30 min, but then it just stopped, i said ok w/e. The next day, today,I have an inside friend that is friends with me and her, and I get information from her as often as i can, and she told me that her and another Guy who is a ******* freshman, were texting like hell and told her that he likes her. I remember too, because at the party he gave her his number right when i was about to leave. This guy isnt an *** whole and we are cool. But I also heard from my trusted friend that she told her that he liked her, and she was with him today at lunch, when i went out and after school when i had things to do. I also text her today, and she never responded. I dont know what her problem is i need advice, please

2006-12-18 16:20:21 · update #1

She really is the perfect girl and I really like her alot. She did like me I know she really did, and I dont know what i did wrong. I have never had sooo much trouble with a girl. I have been chacing her for a month now and i am tired, and my grades are really reflecting on it. If she doesnt like me she shouldnt be leading me on like that, i feel like i am going in a circle. If i did not have strong and I mean STRONG feelings about her I would be going out with someone else. I got asked out by 4 other girls in the last month and i rejected all of them just for her. and to get nothing out of it really pisses me off! She is clean, she is a good girl, she is involved and she is loved by all. I also am a classification lower than her, but to choose a freshman who is not too good looking by the way, over me is terrible, she says she isnt playing with me, and that she wanted to be friends, but after saturday, you dont do that. I had no other place to turn to but all you good people, thanks

2006-12-18 16:26:41 · update #2

Thanks for the answers so far, I greatly appreciate it.

If you look at the lyrics of
Artist: Linkin Park
Song: In The End
That is how i really feel, check it out here.
http://www.lyrics007.com/Linkin%20Park%20Lyrics/In%20The%20End%20Lyrics.html

2006-12-18 16:36:11 · update #3

Well, looking at the reply's I have received, I thank you for all the responses, it means a lot to me. I agree with John, that response really is a good explaination, I have started to back off, starting today after I found out what happened, but what should I do about this other guy, how can I show her that I care for her, and so I can have another chance. Also with Christmas around the corner, I really wanted to get her a nice gift, what should I do about that? Should I buy her something nice, or nothing, or something decent. Suggestions please. Thanks again to all that have read and have responded!

2006-12-18 17:43:03 · update #4

5 answers

SOUNDS LIKE AN EPISODE OF BOY MEETS GIRL.TEXT MESSAGES DOES NOT MEAN LOVE.
NOT IN MY GENERATION.MAYBE I'M JUST OLD ,AND DON'T UNDERSTAND TODAYS YOUTH.
BUT IF YOU LIKE HER, TELL HER TO HER FACE THAT YOU LIKE HER,.WHAT DO YOU HAVE TO LOSE?

2006-12-18 16:19:21 · answer #1 · answered by PEACHES 5 · 0 0

I know you've already received quite a few answers but in my opinion it sounds like she might be confused you and the other guy she might like you both and she just doesn't want to hurt either one of you so in trying not to hurt you she actually is hurting you by avoiding you, if you really like her just try being friends with her, she might also be afraid of being in a relationship so by becoming really good friends first you might ease that fear. As far as a Christmas gift goes, it's your call! If she's still avoiding you I personally wouldn't get her anything especially not anything really nice, because you may not get the chance to give it to her, if you do get her something get her more of a "friend" gift than a girlfriend gift. Something that doesn't say your trying to hard girls like guys who have other interests and if she knows how much you like her she probably assumes you're going to keep waiting for her since it already has been a month and may give the other guy a chance since he may not be so willing to wait so show her that you don't need to be with her or to be talking to her constantly and see what happens she may realize she wants to be with you. GOODLUCK and Merry Christmas!

2006-12-18 18:36:12 · answer #2 · answered by chrisdcrazy 2 · 0 0

heres the thing..u propably freaked her out,that is the common problem with us guys,and most of us dont know it but i do from my mistakes..if we really like this particular gurl we get too serious in such a short time,always textin,calling.....ect,u should take it easy,but now the way i see it you are already in love,and it could be too late because she withdraws herself from you.,(playing hard 2 get u think?try not to chase her too much,too much is never good)and sometimes the more she stays away the more we call for attention which is wrong.during dating stage or whtever it is important to give her some space,try not to call her too much,or txt even.

but that doesnt mean u cut off the circle,not too much but not less either,
just right. : )

and if she notices that ur world revolves around her,she wud stay away from that world,i mean your still dating or getting to know each other stage,not yet her bf,

she likes you but you freaked her out,

now,instead of asking her out,or if u want to get togther or whatever,try to make something up like "ei wats up im going this place..blablabla u wanna come with me?

if she declines,just act casual u can txt her bak nd just say "ok"


good luck.

2006-12-18 17:35:33 · answer #3 · answered by J o h n 3 · 0 0

Just try to get closer to her and just talk to her about this other guy. let everything out and tell her how u feel. good luck and happy holidays

2006-12-18 16:28:12 · answer #4 · answered by Joho 7 · 0 0

I DONT KNOW THE REST OF YOUR STORY BUT WHAT
I HAVE READ SHE SHOULD LIKE SOMEONE THAT WITH
SOMEONE ELSE AND WANT TO PLAY BOTH SIDE . AND
IF THAT THE CASE, YOU NEED TO FIND SOMEONE THAT
WILL LIKE YOU AND YOU ALONG.

2006-12-18 16:18:55 · answer #5 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0 0

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