I've liked the guy for a while now. Sometimes it seems like he likes me. I think i notice him blushing every time he bags my groceries. I dont know how to start talking to him and if i do im afraid he'll blow me off or think im weird. This one time i was buyin a really small cat food bag and he offered to walk me to my car, but i declined. So now how do i start talking to him? should i ask him wut high school he goes to? I at least want us to be friends. Please help, i've had this dilemma for a few months now.
2006-12-18 16:13:57 · 18 answers · asked by Aquarius-Monkey 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go up to and say "hello"
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2006-12-18 16:15:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go through his checkout and let him walk you out to your car. Get HIM to ask YOU out. Plan out the smalltalk you'll make, like a funny story that "happened that day" so that there isn't any weird silence on the way to the car, and when he is talking, behave as if you're incredibly interested in what he's saying. He's not going to ask you out if he doesn't know that you would say yes probably. So be SUPER smiley and friendly and then if he hasn't asked you out by the time you're saying your goodbyes, ask what days he usually works "so that you know when he's there to walk out with you and chat." If he manages to walk away without asking you out, think about how it went and if you think he's into you, do the same thing next time you see him (to give him another chance) and then ask him out.
One more thing...I just re-read your question. Do highschoolers go out on dates? Maybe you should replace all the "ask you outs" with "give you his number" or "ask you for your number." You get the point.
2006-12-18 16:23:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are really interested in him, you should be honest with him and tell him you want to go out with him. If you don't want to be that direct you can just ask him how he is doing the next time you see him and drop subtle hints that you like him. Ask him questions about himself, look into his eyes and smile, gently touch his arm or his back. He will get the point and should let you know if he is interested or not. I hope this helps.
2006-12-19 13:06:18 · answer #3 · answered by AJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have it in you to be a great flirt I can already tell...You just have to bring it alive. Here's what you can do to bring it alive try asking him which high school he goes to like you mentioned earlier. Ask him how does he like workin at the store..I am pretty sure he will have alot ot say about his job..good or mostly bad. Make sure you are looking as BEAUTIFUL as possible and check the breath..hehe.. Act mature and lauch at his jokes...Men love it when women laugh at their jokes and dish him compliments too. Make him feel like a man and not a boy. Be feminine and just act happywhen he see's you. Most men dont like girls who appear to be sad looking or complaining all of the time
2006-12-18 16:14:55 · answer #4 · answered by LaToya J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The next time he offers to help you out to your car....let him! You can start talking to him then. Ask him if he wants to hang out, what school he goes to, and whatever hits your mind at that time. I would say he was flirting with you but you declined so he proabably thought you weren't interested. Show him a sign that you are interested in him.
2006-12-18 16:17:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I keep on the food market. i could evaluate paying for at Wal-mart extremely if the food market did no longer ensue to be suitable next to my house complicated, yet Kroger's expenses are regularly reminiscent of Wal-mart's besides.
2016-12-15 04:01:14 · answer #6 · answered by binford 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always had bad luck when I was young because I didn't realize how hot I was, if this little bagger boy is lucky enough to be your secret love interest, then he's hit gold, and doesn't know it.
"you should come outside with me" just like you own the store, like you've notcied him noticing you and you're ready to give him a chance. His palms will sweat before he even gets to know your name.
2006-12-18 16:18:02 · answer #7 · answered by kikumatsu 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Next time don't decline when he offers to walk you to your car!
2006-12-18 16:17:08 · answer #8 · answered by the Boss 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
on a small slip of paper write your phone number and who to ask for
give him the paper as you are paying and walk out
2006-12-22 11:24:40 · answer #9 · answered by Ms. Mystery 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have one of your friends ask for his phone number and tell him that you are interested in him that way if he has a girl or isnt interested for some reason you wont feel like you got rejected because you didnt ask him.
2006-12-22 11:36:31 · answer #10 · answered by peanutbabi2003@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all you can't always predict someone is going to like you and I think your best bet on finding out he likes you is flirting with him and being as close as possible thanks hope that works for ya!
2006-12-18 16:16:47 · answer #11 · answered by <un amant> 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋