I am really strongly prolife. My friend told me the truth about her getting an abortion a while ago and she doesnt regret it. Ive always wanted a prolife sticker on my car, would that be wrong? one of those "stop abortion" ribbons, like the "support our troops" ones. do you think that would offend her bad? Its my opinion, and my truck, but shes also my friend. help!
2006-12-18 16:07:36 · 17 answers · asked by metalstefl 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Young lady, it's important stand for things in life. This happens to be one of the best causes there is.
Do not worry about the approval of others and losing friends. If this happens, they're not really your friends anyway. People are going to hate you for what you believe in, but this is a part of growing and living.
2006-12-18 16:11:05 · answer #1 · answered by Joseph C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even if you don't support what she did you can still support her. I am extremely prolife, but in the end those who killed there babies have god to answer to. It doesn't necessarily make them a bad person. If you strongly feel like it may offend her talk with her, ask her feelings on you having the sticker and let her know that it doesn't mean you think any less of her because of her decision. Also understand that she may not like it if you do put the stickers on your car, but that is your choice.
2006-12-19 00:18:02 · answer #2 · answered by lizincali 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I doubt that you will offend her too much if you put a pro-life bumper sticker on your car. I'm pro-life, and I wouldn't be offended if one of my friends put a pro-choice sticker on their car. Or if they put a Democratic sticker on their car, I would just pity them. If your friend had just gotten an abortion, she might see it as you trying to tell her something without actually saying it to her, but since it was a while ago, there shouldn't be a problem.
2006-12-19 00:17:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should feel free to put whatever you want on your truck. Just because you are friends doesn't mean that you can't disagree about something. Where you might go get into trouble is if you start treating her differently now that you know that she has had an abortion.
2006-12-19 00:11:03 · answer #4 · answered by makin_the_same_mistakes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when a friend asks me, i always say prolife, but for others i think prochoice. i don't want to force what i feel on others. sometimes , there is more to the pregancy then expected like a mother will die if she gives birth with a high chance the child will too. hence why i say prochoice to them but i am prolife i would gladly give my life for a child of mine to be, if it was 90% chance they live.as for the bumper sticker i think its your choice, ppl make choices in life with no regrets, and thats great for them, but if u want to say how u feel the bumper sticker is cool, she should understand your opinion like u did hers.
2006-12-19 02:02:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Where in the world would they even sell ribbons that say abortion is wrong?
It is every woman's right to have an abortion,
Just say you are so dead set against abortion but you find yourself pregnant one of these days and the doctor tells you to either end the pregnancy or die and leave your other kids motherless? Are you going to stick to what your sticker says on your truck?
2006-12-19 00:41:11 · answer #6 · answered by ஐ♥Julian'sMommy♥ஐ 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
If you want the ribbon for your truck, go for it!! You have your opinions and beliefs just like your friend does. But if you want to keep your friendship, you can't judge your friend for the decision that she made.
2006-12-19 22:11:36 · answer #7 · answered by Melissa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends are supposed to respect your opinion no matter what. As long as you are not forcing her to follow you, then it should not matter that much. It's just a sticker. People tend to ignore those, anyway.
2006-12-19 00:16:12 · answer #8 · answered by fliptastic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm also pro life i feel very strong about this like you do.
i say put the sticker on thier it's your truck and your choice to show what you believe in. i know she's your friend but that doesn't mean you can't express your views and opinions.
go ahead tell everyone what you believe.
2006-12-19 00:12:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not at all. If she is your friend she will respect you for your beliefs. Hopefully you'll do the same.
Be careful when posting your beliefs on your possessions. Many people (radicals) could vandalize your vehicle. If I were you--while there's nothing wrong making your beliefs pubic--I'd just stick with no bumper sticker.
2006-12-19 00:21:46 · answer #10 · answered by .vato. 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋