ok . . . my gf broke up with me back in march and said she wanted to date around and see whats out there and all that good stuff after a 2 year relationship. . she starts dating this kid i went to high school with 2 weeks later . . . i hate the kid so its obviously a bad situation for me . . . so i try to get her back for about 2 months and in the middle of june i went NC . . on our 2 year anniversery at the beginning of july she send me a text that says . . "today was two year" just to remind me of it i guess . . . and ever since that text she has been calling/texting/leaving voicemail/or emailing me once atleast ever 2-3 weeks . . . a few times in was 2-3 times in a week . . . i have not responded to her or anything . . . so its been 5 months and its still going on .. .she is still with this same guy so she obviously knows we cant be friends be cause of the situation.. . . . . .so why does she keep trying to contact me?. .
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21 minutes ago
when they first started dating she even admitted part of the reason was because he was there and she hates being alone
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49 minutes ago
this is her latest message
hey (name)!! hows it goin? boy, youve sure been hard to get a hold of lately! i was thinkin about stoppin by sometime, so unless i hear otherwise from you ill see you soooon!! k byeee!!
<3 (name)
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2 days ago
i dont want to know what u people think i should do . .. just want to know what u think she is thinking
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25 minutes ago
this is the latest message i just got tonight
heyyyyyyy (name)....are you done not talking to me yet?? just wonderin if you wanted to hang out sometime or atleast come visit and see my house!! well please get back to me and let me know!! :)
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19 minutes ago
she just sent me another email saying that she wants me to come to her birthday party . .. now why would she want me to come if he is going to be there . . . it would only cause trouble and be really awkward on top of that
2006-12-18 15:25:35 · 7 answers · asked by lbsf2904 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude, your whipped! She has you on a string and you keep letting her. Give in and go to her party with a really hot girl!
2006-12-18 15:41:09 · answer #1 · answered by moobiemuffin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't play her game. Just ignore her and do you're own thing. Sounds like she's keeping you hanging on as her back up plan. Move on and don't let her control you in the situation. She put herself in this situation and she has to live with the consequences. Find you someone that will treat you right!
2006-12-18 23:30:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she wants u back but doesnt wanna break up with the new guy till shes sure ur gonna get back together with her
2006-12-18 23:35:56 · answer #3 · answered by fini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she wants her cake and eat it too. either tell her to get lost and not to contact you anymore or change your number
2006-12-18 23:30:32 · answer #4 · answered by kd baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants you.
2006-12-18 23:28:00 · answer #5 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find some one else
2006-12-18 23:29:02 · answer #6 · answered by John B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thankx for the points.... WHy don't you write a book about it...
2006-12-18 23:28:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋