Is there a chance she still likes me?

Question

I just got off the phone with a girl who I have been dating for 2 months. We are both kind of new to dating and aren't sure what to do. Up until last week things have been going well. Recently, we haven't talked as much and when she does call me back we only talk for like 5 minutes, before she has to do her homework. She is taking some really tough classes, but I'm not sure she doesn't have more time. In one of our brief coversations she said she would let me know if she hated me (I asked her if she did) and tonight when I asked if she wanted to do something this weekend she made an excuse, and when I asked if she wanted to do something at all this Christmas break she said yes, but it wasn't convincing.

Answer 1

I think you're losing her interest. If she REALLY liked you, she would MAKE time to talk to you at least a little and arrange to go out at least occasionally. Your best bet now is to hang back and not call her or anything for a while. You've been trying too hard. If she wants to avoid you (for lack of time or interest) you should let her do it. I don't see such a bright future to this relationship, but there MAY be a LITTLE bit of hope left. Just back off and you'll see how strong her interest is. Good luck!

Answer 2

Here's what you do: Ignore your own desires to see her and talk to her, and just let it slide for a few days, or even a week. This is going to be really hard for you to do if you are anything like me, you're going to want to at least call her and talk, but the best thing you can do is to remain distant for a little bit. Perhaps she is just stressed out right now, perhaps she's too preoccupied to focus on the relationship. Just give her some space and it will work for you in three ways. One: People want what they don't have. You may be dating, but if you seem to "cool off" so to speak, she's going to wonder why, she's going to want to talk to you more just to make sure things are all good. Suddenly it won't be you suggesting the get together, it will be her. Or two: If she is just busy and stressed out right now, by backing off for a short period of time you will be giving her the space she may need. Soon it will be Christmas holidays and you can both relax a little more. And three: If the worst case senario is true and she isn't as into the relationship as she was before, the break will give you time to distance yourself somewhat and make it easier should (and I really hope not) break up. The last one isn't the greatest, but it's true. In the mean time, try not to think about things too much, focus on other stuff and stay positive. Don't be like me and make yourself miserable stressing out over every last detail, it doesn't do you any good in the end, believe me I know. You just make yourself miserable, and often it changes the way you act in a relationship, and not for the better. Good luck, I hope it all works out for you two!

Answer 3

There is a chance she still likes you. I don't know the girl, but maybe she's just going through a tough time right now and is really busy. Just be supportive and give her the space that she needs while she's dealing with the stress of her classes and homework. And maybe you should ask her if there's anything you could do to help.

Answer 4

theres a chance she does yes you need to talk to her about who u feel and if she isnt very convincing just give her sometime maybe there really is a lot going on with her just be there for her if she needs you and dont push her. good luck i hope everything works out for you

Answer 5

There might still be a chance that she likes you, but this is slim. She is already making excuses. I think you should dump her before she dumps you.

Answer 6

sounds like you don't trust her maybe she is busy give her a chance

Answer 7

There's a chance.

Answer 8

Yes i guess.

Answer 9

probably 60%... good luck dude!!!