Do you think its healthy to go skinny dipping in front of your cousin?
My cousin Paige has a swimming pool and I have been over there. She often invites me when she has get togethers. Every once in a while some of the guests go topless and few guys (we are all in our 20's) have gotten nude. I actually went nude for the first time last week in front of her and some of her female friends. Is this ok? I mean should I make a big deal about it or am I making a big deal about it. Sometimes its fun just to skinny dip.
2006-12-18 15:00:56 · 20 answers · asked by donniesmello 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
As long as it's just swimming and everyone is comfortable with it, then I really don't see what the big deal is.
2006-12-18 15:03:34 · answer #1 · answered by marklemoore 6 · 1⤊ 4⤋
I "personally" wouldn't do it with or in front of my male cousin....but, I mean, if she had a problem w/it, I'm sure she may have said something to you. Did she go topless in front of you? Just come right out and ask her...and add while asking that you want to know because if it made her like REALLY uncomfortable you need to know. She IS family and you don't want to make for an "odd" situation like that if she felt uncomfortable. BUT---if she's ok, you're ok!
Wait a minute....SKINNY DIPPING in DECEMBER???? HAHA- Where the H*ll do you live!?!?!??! LOL
2006-12-18 15:06:51 · answer #2 · answered by secret_oktober_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nudity is only objectionable when it's prurient. If other people were going nude or topless, or skinny dipping, then join in the fun. You're right, sometimes it is fun just to swim in your skin.
2006-12-18 15:37:24 · answer #3 · answered by old lady 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Where's my invitation ? You sound like you are all free spirited, go ahead and have fun, if it's no big deal for your cousin, then it's no problem.
2006-12-18 15:05:41 · answer #4 · answered by CLAUDE D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no big deal. i have been nude in front of cousins and family and friends
2006-12-19 15:38:18 · answer #5 · answered by camorningsurfer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a nudist I see no problem at all with non-sexual, social, nudity with anyone, whether they are family or not.
If everyone is comfortable with what people are, or aren't, wearing then I don't see where the issue is.
2006-12-19 00:57:20 · answer #6 · answered by glawster2002 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's wrong for you.
But I will sacrifice myself and I will go skinny dipping in your place.
Tell your cousin to call me.
2006-12-18 15:06:02 · answer #7 · answered by big j 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is perfectly allright if all parties are OK with it! Nudism is nothing to be ashamed of, appropriate nudity is healthy for your mind.
2006-12-20 14:03:37 · answer #8 · answered by Dave 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with it.
There is no taboo about cousins except in the minds of northerners.
2006-12-18 22:10:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cousin or any family member you shouldn't have gotten completely nude! why did you feel like you had to prove something keep your private parts to yourself theres other ways to have fun! thanks
2006-12-18 15:07:53 · answer #10 · answered by ms. clean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's is not a big deal! it is very normal in many countries to be naked. Nudity does not have to hava always a sexual conotation!
2006-12-18 15:05:05 · answer #11 · answered by Soldado 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋