Hello,
We are about to enter a very delicate subject and Im going to be as open and truthful as I know how, so here goes.
First of all, It's not a sin to have a wet dream. From my understanding of that part of a male human's anatomy, especially one going through his teen years, it's a natural occurrance and perfectly normal, although somewhat messy. It occurres because of accumulation of seminal fluid in the prostrate gland. Your testicals manufacture the seminal fluid which is stored within the prostrate gland and associated tubing. This fluid will continually build up and if allowed to build up with a certain amount of pressure, the result is often a spontaneous ejaculation otherwise known as a wet dream, which often wakes the guy up to a gooey mess in his drawers.
You are probably young, obviously male and the hormones are roaring through your body all the time. The least little erotic thing can set you off which sets off all kinds of mental and physical things within you, not to mention an embarrasing erection that may be hard to hide. So, what's to do about it?
Here's where you may think I'm a very wierd person, possibly one of those perverts. Very possibly depending upon the values your parents hold, they may very well not be happy with this advice. Please believe me, I'm trying to help you to keep your sanity, retain your self esteem and experience some relief once in a while, so listen up! James Dobson, a very well known Christian psychologist has made several movies about parentalship. In one of these movies he discusses this subject and very openly advises the same remedies for teen age boys
Now for the sticky part, (no pun intended). There are two ways of relieving this neusance from occurring. One is by having regular sex, which has many possible consequences, most of them harmful if this is done out of the sacred bond of marriage. The other is to go someplace private and masterbate, no big deal, it takes from five to ten minutes. This is what I told my own son when he was going through his teen years, now 30, still worships the ground I walk on, happily married and one child. I know what your friends say about it, I've been there but don't let it bother you, it's nobody's business but yours, just keep it to yourself. Besides, regardless of what they may tell you, if they all say they don't masterbate, 99%, possibly all of them are lying, or having wet dreams like you. It's perfectly OK to masterbate occasionally, just don't leave dirty, messy wipes around for your mom to clean up. Don't feel guilty about it, if done privately and discretely it's not immoral, God knows your heart. Plus you can do it as often as you need to and it still won't physically harm you, make hairs grow on the palms of your hands, or make you go blind. Isn't that great?!
I was young once and I never had a wet dream, nor did I ever feel guilty about masterbating, because I knew, regardless of what they said, I knew most of my male friends were doing it too. It's just that we never seriously discussed it among ourselves. We did do some ragging on each other about it. You can be sure that the one trying hardest to make others feel shamefull, or guilty is the one feeling most guilty himself.
Who am I? I'm 63 years old married for 40 of those years to the same wonderful woman and a lovable fuzzy grandpa to my three grand kids who absolutely adore me.
I am shockeedoc.
2006-12-18 16:15:21
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answered by shockeedoc 2
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If the dream was wet, enjoy for knowing that its good not to sin, enjoy your rest as soon as you know that you`ll forget about sin and the dream awake inside the life to enjoy your dream alive wet as skin
2006-12-18 14:58:50
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answered by dinaro5 2
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It is not a sin. It is also not a sin to dream, even if they seem quite bizarre. You see where I might be going? ...yeah, even if you dreamt of your friend's Mom or some other strange scenario, that still wouldn't be a sin. Dreams have a way of fabricating out of random thoughts in our head. If you body happens to connect a necessary physical urge with something you normally wouldn't even think about in real life, do not be alarmed. It's out of your control.
2016-02-25 12:51:01
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answered by scrapmetal 2
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A sin is anything that comes between you and the Spirit of God. sex is a natural thing. so it is not a sin.unless you let it occupy your mind and body so much it takes you away from contact with the Spirit of God.Life is for living. but if you don't have some contact with the Spirit then that is blasphemy of the holy Spirit by refusing to let it be with you and let it guide you thru prayer and the asking of it and listening for the answers.and then your not connected to the Spirit and so when you die you will not be connected to it so it will not be able to lead you to heaven and then you might be lost.so don't sin . let the Spirit into you.with love and faith. and all will be OK. I hope you have a very Merry Christmas.
2006-12-18 14:53:28
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answered by Anonymous
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A sin would be like watching porn all night and masterbaiting not saying that I don't but I don't believe in God but if you do that's it's perfectly natural for you to have a wet dream if you don't masterbait.
2016-07-15 06:40:38
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answered by lui 1
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If you still have wet dreams after deleting lust from your daytime / not dreaming state of mind then this would suggest its not really what would be considered a "choice". If you have wet dreams after lusting during the day, then you could guess your to some degree choosing this lustful state of mind.
2006-12-18 15:08:50
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answered by errr 2
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Of course not!
Its a sin to wet your bed though.
2006-12-18 14:44:56
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answered by mythkiller-zuba 6
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no its not but to plain a act an do it is.
a dream is just a dream some times to worn you an some times to give you a message but to have a wet dream is not
2006-12-18 14:45:41
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answered by SGT SEXY MAMA 2
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No, that's something normal in our body, What would happen to a pot welled cover and got no free space to the vapor to go through? May explode, well isn't that your pines will explode but that's the natural way to release the excess of sperm.
2006-12-18 14:48:36
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answered by Javy 7
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nope, just fun. sins are just gods little way of saying the human race as a whole is not good enough. he chose some of the hardest things not to do. besides why do you care, he is make belive.
2006-12-18 14:47:04
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answered by мΛІ€ҢΛр™ 3
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