I really, really, truly think I'm in love with somebody. I have TOTAL fear of rejection, and I'm afraid that he doesn't EVEN like me! His whole family (EXCEPT FOR HIM and his big sister who'se grown) knows! I can't tell him! I really can't! My friends say I write depressing poems about him! If he doesn't feel the same, I'm going to feel wierd around him for -like- ever! He goes to my church! WHAT SHOULD I DO?
2006-12-18 14:38:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We're best friends, and he's always nice to me. When we pass by eachother at church he always smiles @ me and says "hey" or something, and one time I had to do a play in front of the whole church and the WHOLE time, he was smiling at me, and it seemed to keep me going... Sometimes I find that his smile is like a life force for me!
2006-12-18 14:45:20 · update #1
Also, his sister, who is my best friend, who would NEVER lie to me, told me that he thinks I'm really pretty. I mean, she doesn't know if he likes me! He won't tell her! Heck, my mom keeps pestering me about it all the time!
2006-12-18 14:48:05 · update #2
Also, I think I've been in love with him for a long time, but currently, the pressure is getting so I am freaked out!
2006-12-18 14:50:50 · update #3
It's like, when I talk to him, I feel great, but whenever i even THINK about telling him, it's like "O NO IM GONNA DIE!" Because my heart is skipping beats and beating faster and I'm like "AAAAAA" and It kidna makes me wanna run around in circles like the crazy idiot I am.
2006-12-18 14:54:41 · update #4
girl i have the same problem!!! I have a crush on my bst friend who is a guy and i want to ask him ouy so bad but if i ask him and he says no i will feel weird. we just have to take that rish girl and hope for the best!!!!!!! good luck to u and happy holidays
2006-12-18 14:42:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him. YOu should never fear rejection because you will get it in your life whether you like it or not. If you're to much of a coward ask his family! You say they know then ask him if he might like you or someone else. And DO NOT get depressed that is SO not that way to go b/c then you act all moopy around the guy you like and he'll never like you b/c he thinks you're a naturally sad person not that you're just always thinking of him not sure if he likes you or not. SO i say A) tell him or B) find out if he likes you or not.
2006-12-18 22:43:34 · answer #2 · answered by amagaldi_star 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pull'em 2 the side when he's alone, and talk 2 him, during the conversation try adding in that u have a crush on him, but find out if he's taken first, if he is you 2 could b the best of friend's.
2006-12-18 22:42:14 · answer #3 · answered by aria19_lovely 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can either open your mouth and inform him or miss out on a great friendship that could lead to a future husband. You will also go crazy if you don't make a decision soon. Like yesterday!
2006-12-18 22:41:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go for it. if u love him then just ask him out. move on to the next chapter of your life no matter how bad or good it is. good luck and happy holidays
2006-12-18 22:47:51 · answer #5 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its best to bring your feelings out in the open slowly. don't tell them you love them rite off the bat. try to blossum the relationship slowly and if it dosen't work out move on. just don't force it best of luc to you
2006-12-18 22:48:40 · answer #6 · answered by LOSTROOTS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHOOT! go to your pastor and ask if he can help find out!! Seriously, if its a match made in heaven go to the proper authority.
2006-12-18 22:44:54 · answer #7 · answered by Sarah GB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should maybe talk to him about it in some way but to just blurt it straight out to him but kinda say things to hint at it.. you need to get it out of you though so you dont lose out on anyting ok...
2006-12-18 22:43:07 · answer #8 · answered by wendy v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST TAKE A CHANCE AND TELL HIM. IT IS IMPOSSIBLE TO DIE OF EMBARASSMENT. HE MAY SAY YES, AND IF HE DOESNT, THEN YOU WILL BE FREE TO FIND ANOTHER CRUSH.
2006-12-18 22:41:49 · answer #9 · answered by tatersma1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him out. rejection is normal but if you wnat happiness u have to ask him out
2006-12-18 22:45:53 · answer #10 · answered by crzysworkboy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋