Is that why it hurts so much?
2006-12-18 14:21:14 · 15 answers · asked by metalheart19 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I want to stop loving him.
2006-12-18 14:27:15 · update #1
You'll fall out of love with them soon enough - after all, if they loved you so much, would they have broken your heart in the first place? Of course not! It hurts because they have caused you unexpected pain, which you certainly did not deserve. That's why it hurts so much.
2006-12-18 14:32:24 · answer #1 · answered by mistress76uk 1 · 5⤊ 0⤋
If you truly love them, you'll still love them even if they do break your heart. Because you still feel there the one for you, and there perfect in every which way. It's hard and maybe the hurt will last forever, but sadly life goes on.
2006-12-18 14:25:46 · answer #2 · answered by Summerbaby 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You still love them but it hurts.Your trust has been broken.Your pride has been hurt.All this together and you are a wreck.Although you still love them your love may be masked because of all the pain you feel at the time.At times we feel angry at someone because they hurt us but if you look closely you will find that your love is still there.Enough hurt and time will soon make you feel numb inside.This is usually how we get over bad endings.
2006-12-18 14:32:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the best thing for you do is love yourself enough to know that you will be better off without her. Be strong and stand your ground. You CAN love again. How long will the pain last? That depends on whether you want to move on or remain unhappy and disrespected. Love yourself sweety. You come first... You know what you have to do--Just get it over with and move on. Trust-- You wont regret it...It feels so good when you get rid of that monkey on your back..
2016-03-13 08:22:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you still love them but it can make you fall out of love for sure. So, you can be heartbroken and be with them-work things out. Or you can be heartbroken, and lonely after you leave them. Part of it hurting so bad is because you never imagined it happening to you because you were blinded by the love.
2006-12-18 14:24:15 · answer #5 · answered by RoxieC 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on what they did and how much are u willing to put up with. Personally if someone breaks my heart im not putting it up for the same blow.
2006-12-18 14:25:20 · answer #6 · answered by spicywannaknow 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you are truely in love with them that is where the saying comes from "true love can break a heart" i think that you are always going to love them if you are really in love...
2006-12-18 14:24:45 · answer #7 · answered by wendy v 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
yes because u actually loved that person n no matter wat if u did break up the memories would still be there.... so maybe dats y u get hurt..... i think it the memories that hold u back.... cuz u loved dat person n u want them back so u refuse to move on hopin dat they will be back like before... but movin on is even harder too but u will have to some day..... sometimes it best to leave the past but dont forget it.....
2006-12-18 14:35:44 · answer #8 · answered by lito-azndr3am3r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in some cases yes. my bf broke my heart and i still loved him and in my case yes thats why it hurt so much
2006-12-18 14:23:35 · answer #9 · answered by erin 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It hurts because you had expectations that your tender feelings would be returned, and they weren't.
2006-12-18 14:23:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋