last year when i was a freshman, there was this senior, n we had the same gym class.We flirted around but never kissed or nething. He had a gf of 3 years n they were breaking up after prom. He wanted 2 go out with me but he was 2 old n still had a gf. Than after breaking up with her he asked me out 2 more times n i sed no, it's illegal n ur going off 2 college n im still n high school. Neway, just 2night i talked 2 him again n he brought up the subject again n said he still cared about me and always will. He tried 2 get me 2 go with him again n i said no. He is a really good guy but i cant b more than just friends with him n he doesnt understand. He says if u really care 4 sum1 than nothing else matters. I agree with him but onle 2 n extent because were n different stages of our lives right now n things wud b so complicated. My parents wud break us up n put him n jail if things eventually got serious. He got pissed off 2nite n its hard 4 him 2 b just friends. Wut shud i do?
2006-12-18 14:20:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow, that's one tough position to be in, girl.. and from my point of view, u got there cuz u did the right thing.. from the way u reason, i can see that u're a mature young girl.. i admire u for that.. not many girl think as mature as u, u know?..
im not qualified for this, but i'll see wat i can suggest k...
the next time he talks to u about a relationship, MAYBE u can tell him:
"I'm really sorry but i really can't have a relationship with you. I've been thinkin about it n i'm doin this for our own good. Please don't pressure me. If u really care about me, please do me this small favor..i'd really appreciate it.. "
if i was in his shoes, i'd probably be hurt too.. but hey, that's life, right.. and i'd do that as a favor for the girl..as tough as it may be..
if he still insists, maybe u can jus leave him.. he'll go over it, hopefully.. but u've done ur best, right?..
and again, i admire ur maturity, girl.. hats off for that.. society'll be a much better place with more people like you...
2006-12-18 14:35:09 · answer #1 · answered by deathbyte 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Victoria, i'm sorry to pay attention that there is somewhat disrespect on your place---yet a 33 365 days previous won't in any respect flow out if mom is dottering and spoiling him---why would desire to he flow?? difficulty is he won't in any respect how you could peacefully co-exist with a woman on a mature point...what a shame. you're additionally witnessing somewhat crude disrespectful habit that comes from being relatives and living mutually a majority of those years. To an intruder this all sounds poor--to you and your brother this is in basic terms on an universal basis living. So say no in case you would be able to desire to--he won't explode or turn blue. loosen up, be cool, be intense high quality, and powerful success-----SMILE
2016-12-11 11:52:52 · answer #2 · answered by kluesner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its good that you talked to him and told him how u feel. If he doesn't understand then hes just going to have to compromise. If he really cared about you he would respect your feelings. Before you make a decision think about how bad/good he treats you, how commited he would be to ur relationship, etc. Then make your decision but be careful because the wrong decision could ruin your future. Good Luck Hun!!! ; )
2006-12-18 14:34:07 · answer #3 · answered by °lia° 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get on the phone and explain to him why you won't go out with him. Don't give him the idea that you just want to play with his feelings.
2006-12-18 14:24:40 · answer #4 · answered by Smiley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its good you told him how you feel. He should be able to respect that if he likes you so much and wants to be with you. He is older than you, and that could cause problems with your family and him. You did what was right.
2006-12-18 14:23:26 · answer #5 · answered by Fuzzyglasses 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk about it.
2006-12-18 14:22:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋