these are some of what I have heard.
1.Dont contact him until he makes a big deal about not keeping in touch with him. Keep dragging this until he reaches his limit. Then use this excuse to dump him for being too overprotective. and then hook up with the other guy. If he doesnt overreact, then just let him fade away and perhaps he wants teh relationship to be over.
Tell me what you think? Is this a good way or do you have something else better?
2006-12-18 14:14:39 · 13 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do it the old way, tell him, its not you it me.
2006-12-18 14:27:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats will hurt his feelings even more. Just be honest and come out with it telling him that he is a great guy, just not for you. If you ignore a guy, that is letting him slowly figure out you are blowing him off over many days of agonising wondering and worrying to eventually come to a conclusion you knew all along. At least spare him this, and if you are too coward to do this then you are scum.
2006-12-18 14:21:48 · answer #2 · answered by youngdude021 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good way: BE DIRECT.
Take it as a given that his feelings will be hurt. They will. Be honest. Leaving him in limbo is just cruel.
Besides, if this is the sort of consideration you show people ("found someone else better"), you're doing him a huge favor. Tell him and let him get on with his youless life.
2006-12-18 14:18:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 19:12:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you freaking retarded? why go through the trouble -- his feelings will be significantly less hurt if you have the decency to just be up front with him.
If you think this what you listed is even a slightly good idea, you're in for a lot of crappy relationships my dear. Be real.
2006-12-18 14:26:39 · answer #5 · answered by intotrashmail 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he reallys likes you then there isnt a way to end it w/o hurting him. but if you have feelings for someone else and want to be with that person just tell the guy the truth. its the best thing to do.tell him the truth
2006-12-18 14:20:24 · answer #6 · answered by erin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell this person how you feel about your situation.
Don't keep your true feelings from this person. In the end you are hurting yourself as well as him.
Don't hold onto the relationship if you have no feelings for him.
2006-12-18 14:20:24 · answer #7 · answered by Boogerbum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's no way to break up w/ someone w/o hurting them...you should be honest, they'll find out the truth anyway & don't prolong it, just do it & get it over w/. It'll be better for you & them that way...
2006-12-18 14:21:50 · answer #8 · answered by Kadi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no matter what or how you do it, it will hurt his feelings. So just go up and say it, then its out in the open and he can't call you a coward.
2006-12-18 14:17:55 · answer #9 · answered by Fuzzyglasses 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no easy way of doing it. Just come out and be honest.
2006-12-18 14:51:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before get married we should try to find a very perfect man for us.
2006-12-18 14:21:44 · answer #11 · answered by sma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋