Should I break up with him ???

Question

Me(19) and my boyfriend(20) have been dating for 2 years and he has always been really sweet, but last week he kept bothering me about having sex with him and he won't stop, he bugs me about it every day, I don't want to break up with him but NO means NO.

Other Details:
-I am a virgin(Waiting till marriage) and he is not
-I really don't want to break up with him :(

Answer 1

2 years is a long time to be dating. And I completely understand the no sex before marriage. Tell him to back off or hit the road. Tell him your not a slutty ***** and if he wants that then to go to a strip club. It worked for me. My husband and I was married a couple years after that happened good luck!

Answer 2

then don't just tell him how u feel and set some guidelines. (Not trying to be bossy of course) and if he persists then just say I have had enough I 'm going to let u go untill u can prove to me that u r gonna be good to me like u used to. This will make him do one of the 2:1 he may go through some hard times without u and come back gladly accept him back in if he comes back sincerely. sometimes guys tend to revert back to old habbits. Thats when it's time to let go for good. 2: he may expierience a nervous brealdown and begin stalking u or somthing if u c this call the police even though it's hard u are doing him a favor and saving him from hiself. i'm a guy but I have seen stuff like this before and feel sensitive to it. Hope that helps

Answer 3

First of all let me start with saying break up with him. Now here are my reasons why you should. First he should respect you wish to not have sex until you are married and if he is constantly bugging you to have sex with him\, he does respect and has only one thing on his mind. Waiting for marriage is something you dont hear too much now days but if that is what you want good for.

Answer 4

girl, me and my boyfriend were just like that!

i told mine that i was going to WAIT. absolutely no other options.

i explained to him that my virginity is something very precious and is not to be treated like a boomerang- once i give it away, it's not coming back to me.

he explained that because we've been together so long, some of his friends were sayin he was "whipped for not nailing me." maybe this is your boyfriend's case?

my boyfriend was very supportive and respected my decision. we've only been together 6 months. because you have been in a relationship for 2 years, a talk with your man should starighten things out. that relationship you have shouldnt end over something like that.

Answer 5

Sounds like the start of a big problem. If he continues on and you don't want that I would end it. He might even end it too if he doesn't get what he wants.

Answer 6

I agree!!!
I'm a girl who waits till marriage.Just tell him I'm not ready.You don't have to break up with him.Tell him your whole future plan.HE he ignores that and keeps begging than break up.It wont matter if you break up because your doing whats right.

Answer 7

sounds like hes ready to take it to the next level and your not. well you need to tell him your not ready and if he cant accept that then hes not worth giving up your virginity to anyway.

Answer 8

mayb u should talk this thru with him. see if he understands ur point about the after marriage thing =]

Answer 9

You know girlfriend....if I were you i would definetly break up with him. DEFINETLEY!! Just tell him that if he doesent stop bothering you about it then you will BREAK UP!!!

Answer 10

you def. need to talk to him about your beliefs and him understanding "NO". True love waits, if he's not willing to wait then he's not meant for you....