I need girls input about relationships?

Question

my ex borke up with me and she keeps contacting me one way or another. why does she do this??? can no contact makie someone realise if she loves me still???? does she stil have feelings for me casuse she still does this?? the reason i ask is i miss her and want her back but she has been ignorant to me then normal i dont understand we were togather 3 years lived togather 2 is this a phase maybe there was alot of jealousy in the relationship have you ever done it in a relationship

Answer 1

Don;t call her, dont hang out with her, Once you arent around and available she will realize she either wants you back or can live without you.

Answer 2

Jealousy is a hard habit to break if the feeling is there. Trust comes before love and if you don't have trust, it isn't really love. If you have a past maybe you should leave it there. Someone between the two of you or both have jealousy issues for whatever reason and until that happens, you will keep on breaking up and getting back together till someone gets tired of it or gets hurt. Sit back and figure out what the two of you want and go from there but I would start with the jealousy thing. I hope that helps, Good luck!!

Answer 3

Hold on to what really matters in your relationship and let the rest go. Just because something bothered you for a second (such as leaving clothes on the floor) does it need to last for days or weeks?
Shouldn't the main focus be on how much you care for this person and the lives you share. Explain to them with an open heart the things that bother you, and try not to get angry. Sometimes just being forgiving is the only way to get past something. Also, being able to explain something calmly and honestly is the best way to get your point across and when they see that it really matters to you thats when they are most likely able to make those sacrifices.

Knowing some things or some people will never change can be frustrating, but when love is in the mix, we don't change them, we get them to make sacrifices on our behalf. Compromises that last lifetimes.

Answer 4

First off. Congrats on the baby! Second, he has NO reason in having that site up. He's got to be hiding something. Like you said if he was bored why not talk to people on Facebook? I'm sorry but something is going on and you are doing NOTHING wrong. It's him. I'm not saying he's cheating, but he's hiding something for sure! If he was 100% faithful to you he would have taken that site down a long time ago! He should be spending time with you not some other chick!

Answer 5

she might be missing the attention that you used to give her. She also might be missing the comfort you used to give her. If you really want her back still, you should talk to her about it. She might realize she made a mistake by leaving you. Sometimes girls don't realize they have a great thing until it's gone.

However, I will warn you, if she starts being rude to you or disrespectful, you should break if off. She might just be trying to control you and misses the control she had over you.

IMO, I say go for it again! Just take it slow and be careful of the games she might be playing. But if you had an open and honest relationship, then you'll know how great of a girl she really is!

Answer 6

I know how you are feeling.
I have been through that same kind of thing. I was with my ex from 1985 to 1992. We lived together from 1989 to1992. I we broke up off and on through our the years between 1989-1992. We did manage to be toghter until 1992 when i had enough. Sometimes it is better to cut your loss and find a new girlfriend( or in my case boyfriend).
You will be happy again. It takes time.

Answer 7

If she keeps on contacting you daily, calling you all the time, then she probably is still intrested in you. If she is only contacting you once in a while, then she probably still wants to be friends with you & keep in touch with you. Why don't you just tell her that you miss her & all that. She might be feeling the same way. You won't be losing anything if you tell her, so why not?

Answer 8

She's not ready to completely let go yet. Theres still part of her that whats you around. Call it fear of being alone. She will either...

A. Come to terms with the differences between the two of you and whatever happened. And be willing to work them out.

B. Come to terms with the differences and whatever happened, and stop calling.

C. Find someone new in her life and stop calling.

But if there was 3 years invested in it I would say she will come to her senses and realize the differences can be worked out.

Answer 9

ok... how many times did she contact you. If its over 5 or 10 ...Then that mean she still love you BUT she dont think it will work out between you and her..So the best thing to do is talk it out when she calls you again..

Answer 10

its hard to completely let go of someone thats been in your life for 3 years, its like a family member by that point. So she just wants to remain in contact. If it really bothers you, tell her to cut it out immediately, she cant have her cake and eat it too. I know people like this, they are manipulating you for their own interest. Hell, I've even done it.

Answer 11

What i would do is tell her that if she does not love you then she needs to give you some space. If she does love you then yaw should try to work things out. If she says she is not shure then tell her that she cant spend the rest of her life being mixed up. She should atleast try so if it dont work then atleast she can say she gave it her best.