Okay, well there're these two guys that like me. Guy #1 has really made an effort to be with me and a friend of the other (that i'm sort of friends with) has told me how Guy #2 just got out of a bad relationship but they think he really likes me, but he sees that i'm leaning towards guy #1 (for obvious reasons) and it makes him depressed. I really want to give him the chance but i don't want to be the only one trying to support a relationship. Guy #1 is really supportive though and he gives me good reasons as to why he should be picked (very good reasons)
I don't know what to do, help?
2006-12-18 14:10:44 · 9 answers · asked by Sae 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are you looking for a date or a more serious relationship? If you're looking for a date, there is no reason you can't have both at this stage, but if you want a more serious relationship, you're going to have to make up your mind one way or the other.
If Guy #1s reasons for being picked are because Guy #1 says Guy #2 is a jerk (and you have no reason to believe that is true), then I'd stay clear of Guy #1, but otherwise, I'd definitely go with Guy #1. If Guy #2 just got out of a bad relationship, he might be looking more for somebody to fill the void than to actually have a good relationship with, and he might not treat you as well as you want to be treated accordingly.
So....be cautious with guy #2, and slightly less cautious with guy
#1.
Thats the read on the situation from this guy anyway.
2006-12-18 14:28:47 · answer #1 · answered by G A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The quick answer is Guy #1. From the sounds of it, he's free of emotional baggage and knows how to treat you right.
Guy #2 is all over the place, which may or may not be a result of his previous relationship. Just because he puts extra effort in when he sees you moving AWAY from him, doesn't mean it's meant to be. He may simply be reacting to the fear of losing you when there is really nothing else to support a relationship...
Ultimately, you know what you want. The simplest answers are often the best.
2006-12-18 14:28:00 · answer #2 · answered by keltarr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart. It will lead you in the right direction most of the time. If you do choose guy #2, give him some time to get his head together again after his last relationship before you get serious with him.
2006-12-18 14:17:07 · answer #3 · answered by Nille 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if guy 2 has gotten out of a bad relationship then he needs time... go with guy one because he will support u and love you as guy 2 may not have good characteristics that guy 1 posseses
2006-12-18 14:13:44 · answer #4 · answered by paige_squirrel_goddess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#2 needs time to himself. Guy #1 is at the right place psychologically to be a good boyfriend (or date)
2006-12-18 14:13:14 · answer #5 · answered by Johnny Q. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
guy 1
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2016-10-15 05:17:02 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your heart!
2006-12-18 14:13:04 · answer #8 · answered by Michael S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to your heart , who do you really like .
2006-12-18 14:23:52 · answer #9 · answered by precious moments babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋