She was in these see-thru little panties and bra set, and he was in boxers. The both looked as tho they meant for what they were wearing to be seen by the other.
His hand was very inappropiately placed.
Should I wake him and tell him to wake her or just yell and wake them both??
Will she be all embarassed cuz she is paractically naked?? Will he be mad or worried about how my husband and I will react??
Should I quietly wake my son and tell him to wake his g/f or just wake them both at once by freaking them out?? they are both 16.
Should I wake him and tell him to wake her or wake her and freak her out?? My hubby wants to put on some pjs, wake her and let her sleep in our bed and then he wants to climb in my sons bed and wait for him to go and feel up his g/f, realize it's not her, and wake up. Should he??
2006-12-18 14:05:24 · 22 answers · asked by trish 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Should I let my hubby go thru with his plan??
2006-12-18 14:09:27 · update #1
Wake them both up!! Tell them you have a zero tolerance in your house for your children having sex!! She will be MORTIFIED, but it's what she needs!!!!
2006-12-18 14:09:22 · answer #1 · answered by misskenjr 5 · 5⤊ 1⤋
You are thinking way too much about this. I guess the best thing to do is just quietly wake your son and just tell him to get his girlfriend up and dressed and make him sleep in a different room. I assume she is the guest in the house for the night* so it wouldn't be right to make her relocate.
* If you allow your 16 year old son's girlfriend to sleep over, you should know that they are going to be having sex, or trying to have sex, or coming very close to having sex at some point during the visit. That's what teenage couples do. I never understand why parents let their children's boyfriends/girlfriends have sleepovers. Dumb idea unless you really want grandchildren soon!
2006-12-18 22:15:36 · answer #2 · answered by Lady G 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I do not think it will work...your son will wake up!!! Good idea!!! Anyway, who cares how the kids will react when you yell out them for being practically naked!!! If they did not want to be found than they should have not fallen asleep with what they had on!! Plus, why is she there with him with no parental supervision? And, if you were there, why is she there in his bedroom? And, I would tell her parents too!!! Nip this in the bud!!! Your son and his girlfriend are being disrespectful towards you and your husband!!!
2006-12-18 22:30:30 · answer #3 · answered by September Sweetie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is what you do1.wake them both up and yell .what do you think this is and tell him and her this is my house and you will respect it .the day you want to have sex you will not do it in my home and I give you two min. to get her out of my house ..when my son was 13 I told him I do not want no girls in your room .the day you get married then a woman can spent the night .you are young and you will have alots and lots of girls and I will have .now he is 30 and .he came back home the same rules go he had a new girl every week . rules that what you need RESPECT........
2006-12-18 22:37:41 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, why is she there and you aren't?! That's just inviting something to happen. And she'd never be at MY house at any time of the night when you should be asleep! You're giving them a little too much freedom, and when she turns up pregnant, everyone will want to ask "Where did we go wrong?" Wake her up, send her home, ground you son, and never leave him at home at night alone.
2006-12-18 22:11:47 · answer #5 · answered by Nille 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Wake up him up take him in another room and yell at him tell him to make her put on clothes and go home!! but do yell at him to much they could have been naked
2006-12-18 22:12:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the hell were they in your house to start with?Instantly get his butt up and take him to another room and ask him why were they the way you found them? Then i would send her packing to her own home with her parents. Hell wake her up as well as him. This is very inappropriate for 2 teens to be in your house-whole. 16 is way to young for your son and g'f to behaving in your house. You have a right to be upset. Get her butt out now and give son a piece of your mind. This is unexcusable. Do it now.
2006-12-18 22:16:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'd get out some damn pots & pans and clang the hell out of them. Then my son would be grounded and I'd be informing the girl that she's not welcome at your home any longer. Your son needs information about appropriate behavior, rules and how to not get young women pregnant, bc that's just around the corner now, isn't it? Do something now. I'd also take away his car if he has one until he learns to respect your household rules.
2006-12-19 02:17:29 · answer #8 · answered by Lake Lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, If this happens again you need to throw a complete HISSY FIT immediately. Screaming, hysterics, and vulgar language. Their behavior is completely inappropriate for their age and in your house. Assert your dominance and role as a protective mother.
2006-12-18 22:22:59 · answer #9 · answered by Poppet 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just wake them up nicely let them be embarassed and explain how a pregnat one can change thier future. If you deny them they will try harder. Explain to them that future will be harder if an accident happens. Give examples of people they know.
2006-12-18 22:25:41 · answer #10 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not!!! As long as your son is being safe, there is nothing really wrong with having relations with his girlfreind, its completely natural, even though its hard for you, as a parent, to accept. if you blow this whole thing out of proportion, it will give your son an unhealthy outlook on sex and probably ruin any trust or understanding between you and your son. just try to be calm about this, realize he is a teenager, it what they do, wait untill his girlfreind leaves and talk to him about the importance of being abstinent (or at least using protection). i know you're mad, but if you yell and scream at him, chances are, he'll never be able to be honest with you again.
2006-12-18 22:15:09 · answer #11 · answered by carxoxo07 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋