I have a gorgeous gf, we have been together 11 years. Last w/end she went away and I went down to a club to see if the pulling power still worked. I ended up bedding a stunning 20 year old. She wants to see me regularly and doesnt mind me being with my gf. I'm really tempted. Is there anything wrong with this? I get loads of sex with two amazing women, my old gf wont know about it and my new gf is happy too.
2006-12-18 13:51:10 · 58 answers · asked by superscorer2003 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are a terrible, terrible person.
2006-12-18 13:52:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
I do not think this is at all right. If your gf is so gorgeous and you have put 11 years into this then why mess it up with someone else. If she or your other new gf found out what would they do, you would more than likely lose your gf of 11 years. As far as this new gf who doesn't mind....... 1) she has absolutely no morals, 2) to me that makes her seem easy what she can't find a single man, and 3) if you where to get serious with this new gf she would do the same exact thing to you. Your old gf WILL find out if you don't stop it or at least end it with her. Woman aren't as stupid and most men suspect. Especially when you get to confident that you will not get caught. How would you feel if tables were turned. have you thought of that? I know you know the answer to this question that this is terrible wrong whether you be a male or female. Hey if you aren't serious then end it have your fun and be with as many woman as you want. But don't put tears into the eyes of your old gf, not over this. Have you ever been cheated on? I haven't and couldn't imagine the pain and I don't want to ever experience that pain. Especially with someone I love so dearly. Do what you think is right in your heart and stop letting your second head below your pants influence your heart and your head above your shoulders. Thats the best advice I can give you and thats coming straight from my heart.
2006-12-18 14:09:14 · answer #2 · answered by sweetie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a pig of a man.
It is only okay to have two girlfriends if they both know IN ADVANCE about the other girl AND you are ALL happy being in an open relationship.
By keeping this from your long term girlfriend, you are just cheating on her, and it shows you have no respect from her. Are you even using condoms?
If your long term girlfriend is gorgeous and great in bed, then what the f**k are you doing pulling other girls? You obviously don't care for her at all, otherwise why would have picked up.
I hope you lose your long term girlfriend and get cheated on heaps by other girls you date.
2006-12-18 13:59:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anna K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not okay. You're being unfaithful to your girlfriend. So you got your ego stroked and now you want to keep stroking it but you are doing it at the expense of your gf and that is just not fair. If you want to act like a single man than don't have a gf. Let me tell you something from experience your "old" gf will know because a woman always knows.Its a sixth sense we have. When she finds out I would't want to be you.
2006-12-18 14:03:51 · answer #4 · answered by regina g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your old gf will know about it eventually. yes, there is a problem with having two gf's, its called bigamy, infidelity. you have to tell your girlfriend about this. i doubt she wants a relationship with sharing a guy. eventually the new girl will feel the same. you either tell your old gf and try to work something out, or stay with the new girlfriend, due to the fact you went out to see if you can get a chick and you did. you dont want commitment, and your old gf really does not need this.
PS. u ask if its wrong for inside i know you feel bad about it. just do the right thing. try to work your relationship out or keep the new girl and stop making your other girl suffer.
2006-12-18 13:55:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ummm No! LOL You can't have your cake and eat it too. Sounds nice but it's not reality. Someone will get hurt and if you care about your old girlfriend ( you should after being with her for 11yrs) then you wouldn't want to do her that way. As for the new so called girlfriend. Well dear you found out that you still have the pulling power so leave it be. You wouldn't want your PULLER to pull something that you can't ditch! know what I mean??
2006-12-18 13:56:23 · answer #6 · answered by ssgtmommy01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all wonderful in the beginning but they will find out about each other. Or the new gf will begin to get jealous of the main gf. You're playing with fire and you will definitely get burned. Is one not enough? It's hard enough making one happy, now you have to make two happy.
2006-12-22 02:31:15 · answer #7 · answered by Robert R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She will find out eventually. If you want to keep your girlfriend, you will stop digging that hole any deeper and pray to God she doesn't get wind of what you've done already.
If you don't care if that relationship goes down the toilet, then go for it.
Atleast use protection dude.....don't make an innocent person pay the price for what she doesn't have any knowledge, much less a choice, about.
2006-12-18 13:58:26 · answer #8 · answered by dragonlady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but it's not OK. Its mainly the dishonesty or trust there are probably different things you like in each person but the fact of it is you just can't have both. You have been with someone for 11 years and if you just jump to someone else then that probably isn't truly love. I mean love isn't a maybe thing.
2006-12-18 13:58:35 · answer #9 · answered by linkielock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL...So you are one of those men that wants the best of both worlds. Think about it. What if your girlfriend thought about doing this to you. Would you be ok with it? I think not. Are you willing to risk 11 years for some silly lil girl? This 20 year old is thinking to herself that eventually you will leave your girlfriend for her. I know you don't agree but after a while she will get attached and want you all to herself and you don't choose her be prepared to get stalked.
2006-12-18 13:57:08 · answer #10 · answered by littleredd1003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bro, one day these things will surface..and you'll lose AT LEAST one..forever.. maybe even both..
u're very lucky to be so attractive to two gorgeous girls, but YOU might have very complicated things to deal with after this.. if u ask me, i'd say it's wrong.. but we never liked being told we're wrong right?..
anyway, i guess u might wanna end ur relationship with the new girl.. it's probably tough, cuz u think gettin a girl who doesn't mind u havin another girlfriend is awesome.. but 11 years is a lot to be happy for.. and it'll be a lot to regret if u lose ur old girlfriend...she's gorgeous too right?..
well, a girl TREASURES a faithful guy, i guess..cuz they ain't easy to find.. so why not be a faithful guy for ur girl?..
all in all, im jus suggestin, bro.. in the end, the decision's all yours..
2006-12-18 14:03:05 · answer #11 · answered by deathbyte 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋